Did He Know He Was The First?

[BEAUTYU2U]

Spin off, sort of.

A poster commented in "The Game" thread that Kiera should of told Blue she was a virgin. Fictional characters but still... did you?

Would your age, relationship status, etc change your answer? Go.

 

[vani]

I told him on our second date, I think. He had a feeling, tough.

So by the time we had sex (3rd or 4th date), he was aware.

We've been together for 2 years now.

I'm 22 and he's 25.

 

[Duchesse]

Mine didn't and thank God. It was the worsest plus I was a late bloomer.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I told him on our second date, I think. He had a feeling, tough.

So by the time we had sex (3rd or 4th date), he was aware.

We've been together for 2 years now.

I'm 22 and he's 25.

So you already knew you'd sleep with him or did you typically tell men you were dating?

 

[barbiesocialite]

for me, yes. I lost my virginity as a teen.

and he throws it in my face every time we talk even though he's married to a former friend. lol

 

[Damaged but not out]

Nope, never told. No man was having that "power" over me.

 

[vani]

So you already knew you'd sleep with him or did you typically tell men you were dating?

I already knew I'd sleep with him, when he kissed me on our first date. Dayum.

 

[LiftedUp]

Yes. I was waiting for marriage so he knew. He hung in a couple of years actually and felt "guilty" doing the deed :/

Also I'm happy I told or else it would been even more painful

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

Guilty... lol

 

[Mai Tai]

Nope...I didn't tell him. I acted like a pro and he didn't even notice that I had no clue what I was doing...

 

[natural_one]

No..didnt tell and will never tell him.

 

[cutiebe2]

Nope, never told him......

 

[PeaceFlow]

Yeah. I told my ex he was my first.

I told SO that he was the first time I'd had real sex. He said I looked shocked after so I think he would have noticed I was inexperienced lol.

 

[greenbees]

Yep, he knows. I told him I was a virgin before we did the deed.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

Nope...I didn't tell him. I acted like a pro and he didn't even notice that I had no clue what I was doing...

Lmao. How did you act like a pro?

And ladies, what was your reason for not telling?

 

[CarLiTa]

How do you deal with the excruciating pain if you don't tell?

I told... both times

 

[InsertCleverNameHere]

I didn't, but it must have been obvious because he asked me a few days later

 

[fasika]

I didn't tell. I did just like Mai Tai, and acted like I knew what I was doing. Lord knows I'd mentally practiced it for years lol. It wasn't painful either, quite the contrary

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I didn't, but it must have been obvious because he asked me a few days later

Lmao! Talk about awkward.

And both times? Spill it.

 

[cami88]

Yes he knew. Plus, it hurt like a b!tch so if I didn't tell him I'm sure he would have figured it out.

And he still thinks he was the last.

 

[swite]

Mine didn't know until he had to wash those bloody sheets.

I was embarrassed and thought he wouldn't like me if he knew.

Immature. I know.

 

[LiftedUp]

How do you deal with the excruciating pain if you don't tell?

This is what I'm trying to figure out.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I thought the pain was more of a mental thing

 

[fasika]

I had neither pain nor bloody sheets. I guess the years of self-love took care of all that.

 

[cami88]

I thought the pain was more of a mental thing

Why? My first (and second, and third) time hurt like the dickens. Pun intended.

 

[LiftedUp]

I thought the pain was more of a mental thing

I thought I was going to die. I was thinking about the potential headlines "Woman dies during sex" and my parents' reaction

My friend was telling me a while ago that it's one experience she would never ever want to repeat.

 

[Everything Zen]

Yes he knows. I figured I'd tell him and not waste anyone's time in case he wanted to run away like the others. I was 27 and so was he. We'll be at 4 years come November and he is so proud to be my one and only. He proposed 6 months later and I accepted the ring and told him I'd think about it in 5 years. I can't believe that I'm actually planning a we- we- wed- weddi- wedding.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

I thought that was supposed to be childbirth.

Were you sufficiently plastered?

 

[OriginalMe]

He he knew I was a virgin. I, however, did not know he was a virgin as well, he
told me years later. We were both 18 at the time and he had sort of a tough guy persona so he was embarrassed to tell me.

I should have known something was up because he only lasted about 5 seconds I was quite disappointed. We ended up dating for 5 years and he got much better, though.

 

[Everything Zen]

I thought I was going to die. I was thinking about the potential headlines "Woman dies during sex" and my parents' reaction

My friend was telling me a while ago that it's one experience she would never ever want to repeat.

I experienced a dissociative fugue after my first time. I was up walking and talking going to different stores looking for Planned B even though I had been on Yaz for 2 years prior to regard my periods and we used condoms. Little to no memory except for a couple of slivers of time.