I am divorced from a man I was with for 12 years, so I know how it is. I loved my exhusband but I LOVE ME MORE. Earlier this year I had a broke engagement with what I thought was my dream man. Yeah it hurts, but I did what I had to do and let go.You know, it's not as easy as you think it is to just let go. I'm slowly getting there though. It's just sad because I really love him and hoped things would be different.