I've been lurking in this thread and wasn't planning to post but here it goes...
I've been married twice. I got married when I was 22 to a black man. We have 3 beautiful boys together but divorced after 11 years of marriage. He was an abuser amongst a barrage of other things. After we divorced, he stalked me and a friend one night and caused a scene in the parking lot of an eatery. The police were called and it got so ugly that a Sgt. was called to the "scene". Long story short, 4 years later, I am now married to that Sgt. now lieutenant who is a white man. I guess my point is, I NEVER expected to date let alone marry a white man especially the white officer on my domestic dispute call, but I did not close my mind to it. He never had or even thought of dating a black woman. It just happened. He possesses ALL the qualities that I want in a man. He's smart, goal oriented, kind, gentle, an excellent provider, a leader, A CHRISTIAN and he loves me and the boys.
All I'm saying is that I understand everyone has preferences but if someone great comes along, don't pass up what could be a great man because he's the wrong color and grow old alone.