esoterica
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Whenever black guys approach me they are always way too aggressive. For example:
My mom and i were followed down a very busy street the other day while shopping. These two fools were standing outside a store and we walked by and ignored their hello's. we kept walking and got to the traffic light and she turned around to look and they were following us through the crowd! The light went green and we crossed. So did they. We were speeding away but they caught up in the end, and started asking for our numbers. She's married, and i'm just not interested. I had to end up telling my guy that i was engaged to get rid of him. The one talking to my mom gave her his email, and was like "you better write me"! the only thing missing was the "or else".
the one talking to me did say that he doesnt see many good looking black women around so thats why they practically ran after us. thats all well and good, but there was nothing gentle about those men.
she complains to me all the time about the way the approach her. its almost like they think black women should be dying for their attention or something. as though they are the catch of the century. usually i just ignore them completely when they try to talk to me as i cant stand that "thugged out" look most of them like to have. we're in london, not brooklyn! then they come out with something like "so you ain't gonna talk to me!"... or "im just a brother talking to a sista".... bla bla bla.
Has anyone else had to deal with this?
My mom and i were followed down a very busy street the other day while shopping. These two fools were standing outside a store and we walked by and ignored their hello's. we kept walking and got to the traffic light and she turned around to look and they were following us through the crowd! The light went green and we crossed. So did they. We were speeding away but they caught up in the end, and started asking for our numbers. She's married, and i'm just not interested. I had to end up telling my guy that i was engaged to get rid of him. The one talking to my mom gave her his email, and was like "you better write me"! the only thing missing was the "or else".
the one talking to me did say that he doesnt see many good looking black women around so thats why they practically ran after us. thats all well and good, but there was nothing gentle about those men.
she complains to me all the time about the way the approach her. its almost like they think black women should be dying for their attention or something. as though they are the catch of the century. usually i just ignore them completely when they try to talk to me as i cant stand that "thugged out" look most of them like to have. we're in london, not brooklyn! then they come out with something like "so you ain't gonna talk to me!"... or "im just a brother talking to a sista".... bla bla bla.
Has anyone else had to deal with this?