I was inundated by brothers and even white guys giving me their approval. It's the biggest pick-me-up and I thoroughly enjoyed the attention, but before I could even finish reading my first new message from some man claiming to be a single doctor, a chat window began to buzz on my screen.
Guy #1
Sorry I misspoke I confused the profession but this is a extremely long post. after rereading this, this does not sound like a 28 year old talking sounds like a teenager who has never had a guy hit on her before.
Guy #2
So he caught me by surprise and I wanted more of him, so we agreed to keep in contact and for the next couple of days he texted me and called me several times per day. I was shocked at his persistence, especially because he said he was a very busy real estate investor/contractor. I knew to wait for evidence and paid little attention to his online profile because he claimed to earn "$200-300K" per year, so I was just hoping to be entertained and was doubtful of everything he stated.
During one of our marathon 3 hour-long phone convos, he let me overhear him put his son to bed as well as listen as he managed work at one of his home sites.
I still think this is too long of a conversation. I also found it odd that nowhere within this long post you said anything about the son's mother. Has he ever been married?
Regardless, I decided right then and there, that he was cute enough to be the first guy that it would be difficult to remain celibate with.
At this moment, he knew you are a horny toad.
I said "hi", so did he and he asked me what I thought about him. I said "you're cute enough for me to drive around" and directed him to my car.
Why didn't you meet at the restaurant?
We both climbed in and proceeded to have a wonderful date with the expected unexpected mishaps: 4-- under his directions,
he had me drive us to a parking garage, where we talked in the car for 1.5 hours instead of going to a normal safer place like Starbuck's
Since you were driving, you were in control so he didn't make you do anything. Anyway, you parked. I haven't heard that since high school.
When he kept trying to get me to promise to do a weekend trip with him, he finally picked up on my hesitation. He's not a dummy and quickly asked me if I was inexperienced. I was driving at the time and was so ready to just kick him out of my car, but I waited a second and told him that I was indeed a virgin at 28, then he proceeded to laugh at me to no end.
This doesn't make sense to me so after you park your car with him in a parking garage, I am making the assumption it was secluded spot, and you start driving again that is when he starts making advances towards you.
Throughout the night, my date would gaze deeply into my eyes, then my cleavage and rub his knees against my leg under the table. If I hadn't been saved, I could have raped him in my car, no lie.
Regardless if a woman is saved or not, does not mean she can't be raped. if this guy wanted to rape you he had plenty of opportunity esp. when you drove to a a parking garage. Also when you were talking in the garage did he hold your hand?
I felt so much better when we broke up, but I do pray he leaves me alone. I was stupid to let him come to my complex and he got way too possessive of me and my time too soon.
You let him get possessive of you and your time that is why you need to read The Rules.
God will provide the right man, but I'm confused as to why my body reacted so profoundly to the date.
you are a horny toad.
Guy#3
I'll admit there's another guy I've been neglecting from match.com who my parents are more likely to approve of who teaches at a nearby university in my field. He seems really sweet, trustworthy and dull, but his pic is amazingly cute. During one of our convos, he already told me what he wants out of a wife, but at this stage, I know men just talk about a possible marriage to butter you up, so I'd rather just have a great makeout session with him than be lied to.
Corny pays the bills. Are you talking on the phone for 3 hours with this dude? I can't tell.
So I'm not giving up on men, but I am no longer using the internet for a date. The professor will be the last one and I am going to meet him in daylight with security cameras present in a safe place. I do end relationships sort of quickly, but I have to since men like to put the bedroom pressure on and then the arguments start. So I hope the prof is indeed as sweet as he seems and takes his time.