cocoberry10
Well-Known Member
Sometimes, I think one of the biggest problems in modern day relationships is that women have come to see men as the prizes to be coveted, not the other way around. I especially find this to be true in some Black relationships, since we now deal with the whole ratio disparity issue (more available/marriageable Black women for each available/marriageable Black men).
And I think this has a negative effect on the way a relationship flows.
For example, you have many Black women vying for the "professional brother" and I think that causes some of these men to behave less respectfully than they normally would. It's almost like they don't have to, so they don't. And I'm not blaming them, because I think that we have allowed it to an extent.
But back in the day, a woman was the prize to be coveted. Do you still believe this is true? Do you agree or disagree?
And I think this has a negative effect on the way a relationship flows.
For example, you have many Black women vying for the "professional brother" and I think that causes some of these men to behave less respectfully than they normally would. It's almost like they don't have to, so they don't. And I'm not blaming them, because I think that we have allowed it to an extent.
But back in the day, a woman was the prize to be coveted. Do you still believe this is true? Do you agree or disagree?