2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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ok... im home, safe and sound (AND ALONE) :lachen: this aint gone work :lachen: dudes try too hard.... i cant work this hard just to come home alone at the end of the night... called bf he is sleep... all i want is to curl up with him right now....

boo....

who forms these half formed *** plans :lachen: bb you are going to have to do better.... :nono: ok so we're crossing that off then... AND i want a pizza.
 
Embyra said:
Wish i never met him I could kick myself smmfh

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Embyra hopefully the lessons you learned\will come to understand from that person\experience will be worth it in the end\give you better understanding of relationships. This will out weigh the hurt that was done, give it time.
 
Man I had a great time. My sO had to leave yesterday. This has definitely been a thoughtful birthday weekend. Happy birthday to me!

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Softerlove said:
Embyra hopefully the lessons you learned\will come to understand from that person\experience will be worth it in the end\give you better understanding of relationships. This will out weigh the hurt that was done, give it time.
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Very true!

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hopeful said:
@MzLady it was Darryl's Corner Bar and Kitchen, 604 Columbus Ave., Boston.
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hopeful, oh ok. I still haven't made it there yet, I heard it's nice. :yep:

So, I've been chatting with this guy I met online and so far, we're really clicking. He's younger than me and I've NEVER entertained guys younger than me, but he seems very mature. He's out of town right now for a family reunion (said he wishes I was there), hopefully when he comes back we can work on meeting up in person.

I'm not really looking for anything serious right now, but it would be nice to connect with someone whose life isn't riddled with baggage and complications.
 
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MzLady78 said:
hopeful, oh ok. I still haven't made it there yet, I heard it's nice. :yep:

So, I've been chatting with this guy I met online and so far, we're really clicking. He's younger than me and I've NEVER entertained guys younger than me, but he seems very mature. He's out of town right now for a family reunion (said he wishes I was there), hopefully when he comes back we can work on meeting up in person.

I'm not really looking for anything serious right now, but it would be nice to connect with someone whose life isn't riddled with baggage and complications.
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hopeful and MzLady78

Y'all in the bean???!!!!!!!
I was there yesterday :)
 
tinkat said:
Man I had a great time. My sO had to leave yesterday. This has definitely been a thoughtful birthday weekend. Happy birthday to me!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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Soooo....was that intentional sO or is he almost there?

Love it....HBD!
 
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meesch said:
ok... im home, safe and sound (AND ALONE) :lachen: this aint gone work :lachen: dudes try too hard.... i cant work this hard just to come home alone at the end of the night... called bf he is sleep... all i want is to curl up with him right now....

boo....

who forms these half formed *** plans :lachen: bb you are going to have to do better.... :nono: ok so we're crossing that off then... AND i want a pizza.
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meesch

You confuse me!!!! Why are u going on dates? SMH Naughty!!!!
 
Fine 4s said:
@meesch

You confuse me!!!! Why are u going on dates? SMH Naughty!!!!
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definitely not for the purposes of an actual date. i was hoping to lead this guy on just long enough to squeeze him for his connections and hook myself up with something better professionally (the cousin he had with him at the beginning of the night, young girl my age, was actually a director at habitat for humanity for example). but that aint gonna happen. he tried too hard to take me home at the end of the night and im not gonna put up with that every time. (also imagine if i had really gone out with that guy and he was acting that way? that would have crossed him off the "prospects" list :lachen:)

on a side note, it did make me extremely glad im not actually dating guys right now. i felt like it was a competition to see who was "cooler"... with all the name dropping and location dropping etc. every now and again i will end up out somewhere with a guy who wants a "cool" woman who knows all the clubs and drinks and is a real party girl beesch type. and im like ummmm i stay home and read a lot :look: i didnt even like that guy as a person to hang out with him i dont think. it was a struggle to have a conversation outside of showing off and asking questions that would allow one to show off. funnily enough he's from dc and it was exactly what i imagined dating would be like if i lived in dc :nono: (which is why i couldnt be single if i moved there)

so im gonna have to regroup on that plan. maybe there still might be another way to get put on through his network but i really dont want to have to spend any time with him again :lol: also i think he noticed i probably have a boyfriend. i almost said "my boyfriend does this or that" several times :lol:

eta: also even though i asked bf beforehand if he would mind and he was okay with it, it turned out that i didnt like it... didnt like the way it felt. it was a little too dishonest for me.
 
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Fine 4s said:
Soooo....was that intentional sO or is he almost there?

Live it....HBD!
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Yes he is my SO now :). Thanks! This has been a great bday!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
Well that getaway was wayyyy to short lol. But I really enjoyed spending time with him :D I told him I want us to go to Vegas for Christmas yay! :lol: We need to go some place where he's never been now :yep:
 
My gf found a GOOD man sitting on her couch!!!

He owns his own insurance company. He called her telephone number looking for some guy and got her. They started to chit chat and next thing she knows he was asking her out on a date.

Naturally she went and according to her the guy is cute and was a gentleman. He told her he felt comfortable with her and she said the same about him. (and he didn't try to sell her anything)

I guess she threw out that theory, you have to leave your house to find a good man! :ohwell::perplexed:grin::lachen:
 
MarriageMaterial said:
My gf found a GOOD man sitting on her couch!!!

He owns his own insurance company. He called her telephone number looking for some guy and got her. They started to chit chat and next thing she knows he was asking her out on a date.

Naturally she went and according to her the guy is cute and was a gentleman. He told her he felt comfortable with her and she said the same about him. (and he didn't try to sell her anything)

I guess she threw out that theory, you have to leave your house to find a good man! :ohwell::perplexed:grin::lachen:
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Wait, he was in her house? or her phone was on her couch?
 
I really like this guy but he can be so cold sometimes. I feel like we should just keep it casual/informal, but deep down that's not what I want and I'm afraid to ask him for more in case I don't like his answer...

To top it off he wants me to go with him to Portland and Vegas next weekend. I don't feel like I should go but I really want the free trip :look:
 
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Keshieshimmer said:
Wait, he was in her house? or her phone was on her couch?
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She means her gf was sitting on her couch, a man called her and they hit it off.

She found a man from the comfort of her couch.
 
qchelle said:
Well that getaway was wayyyy to short lol. But I really enjoyed spending time with him :D I told him I want us to go to Vegas for Christmas yay! :lol: We need to go some place where he's never been now :yep:
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hey! bf and i are doing vegas for christmas! I'M 'ON HUNT YOU DOWN :yep:
 
meesch said:
ok guys... im on a date with someone that is not bf.... :look: will report back
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Girl why you trying to use men but was all up in that "if you gotta man, you should never be broke" thread talking smit about girls using a man or trying to use their snatch?
:lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
meesch said:
bf gave me permission to date these guys in the interests of furthering my career :rofl: as long as i dont sleep with them. muahahahaha.
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nappystorm said:
I wanna use somebody but it ain't for money:lick: :look:
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nappystorm don't use your womanly wails or cooch for anything other than your man but I know whatchu lookin fo.........big vein can't say no mo.

I cannot believe this herre bs. WTH good is a yt man? :sad: I wonder if its a black man she is tryin ta use.......................:lachen:
 
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firecracker said:
@nappystorm don't use your womanly wails or cooch for anything other than your man but I know whatchu lookin fo.........big vein can't say no mo.

I cannot believe this herre bs. WTH good is a yt man? :sad: I wonder if its a black man she is tryin ta use.......................:lachen:
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:lachen::lachen::lachen:


No, I'm looking for something eles --->:lick: if you get my drift.
 
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