2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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VeryBecoming said:
Is there a big girls like to put stuff in butts stereotype? :lol:
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Nooo. :lol:

THOSE big girls seem to say anything to please the men in that group. The small-average chicks be like "hell to the naw", then the big girls come in talking about we are judging too much and blah blah. I really should remove myself from that group. :yep:
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
Nooo. :lol:

THOSE big girls seem to say anything to please the men in that group. The small-average chicks be like "hell to the naw", then the big girls come in talking about we are judging too much and blah blah. I really should remove myself from that group. :yep:
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What? Oh no..Not good..
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
In one of my facebook private groups, this guy said that he likes to be snowballed and taken anally, but he is straight. *sighs* I'm sorry. I know that "technically" doesn't make him gay, but :nono:. Women, ONLY BIG GIRLS are commenting saying that they like a man that is willing to let them go in the back.

Chile.....

I know I can't stereotype, but...... :nono:
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Don't know what to say...I would not!
 
My SO former mother in law came over today for 1hr40min..Was a little strange,but we all talked...
 
AHeadOfCoils said:
Nooo. :lol:

THOSE big girls seem to say anything to please the men in that group. The small-average chicks be like "hell to the naw", then the big girls come in talking about we are judging too much and blah blah. I really should remove myself from that group. :yep:
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kinda like they all big girls like oral stereotype. leave the group
 
this dood is really mad that i keep winning words with friends with bull**** words.:lol: i mean, copped a srs 'tude. its not my fault i keep getting stuck with the ****ty *** 'q' or that 'qi' is an acceptable word but zeus is not.
 
So I went to the Cheesecake Factory on Saturday night with an old ex. What I thought was going to be a nice chill dinner over some steak and wine turned into a date.:look: (we were going to catch up since we hadn't spoken in like a yr)

I honestly didn't even know we were on a date until the end and he paid for everything and basically told me that he is interested in the opportunity (if there is one) for us to get to know each other again and see if it goes anywhere.:blush:

Back story- we dated for a yr and some change when we were 19/20 and broke up mainly due to immaturity.

Things are different now... we are older, more mature, more stable, and more focused on our wants and stuff.


I honestly don't know how I'm supposed to feel about all of this.:ohwell:

For the last 3-4 months or so I have been so uninterested in dudes.:look:

we shall see.
 
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I had to look up what snowballin was... ummm no thx lol

AHeadOfCoils said:
In one of my facebook private groups, this guy said that he likes to be snowballed and taken anally, but he is straight. *sighs* I'm sorry. I know that "technically" doesn't make him gay, but :nono:. Women, ONLY BIG GIRLS are commenting saying that they like a man that is willing to let them go in the back.

Chile.....

I know I can't stereotype, but...... :nono:
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Ok, first, we are going to the VI in October. So as I'm sitting here googling the hotel and attractions, I see that there is a Virgin Islands Fashion Week the same time we'll be there and our hotel is the registration hotel for damn Fashion Week. Models :mad: I mean, I'm secure and all. But models :mad:

He finally met my parents this week. Idk why I had been putting it off. Well, my dad was looking like :mad: but I told him that that's just because my dad is really silly and friendly so I guess he was just trying to be stern and he had to concentrate really hard so he didn't start telling jokes or something. Actually, my dad was offended that we've been dating since January and he hadn't met him. But...that's my fault, dad. So...smile! And my mom loves him.

We were at dinner and some people he knows through work walked past our table (um. I'm from here. So why when we're out do we never see anyone I know? Hmmph.). It was a couple that had just gotten married but they're both colleagues of his. So the guy was like "oh, so this is InchHigh? I've heard a lot about you." Love it. But I was thinking, is he just doing SO a solid? Trying to make him look good in front of me? hm. And then I mentioned something about the conference they had a couple weeks ago and the wife looked like "how'd you know that? :)" SO was like "I tell her everything. I'm very open with her." And he looked at the dude and was like "I mean, that's how you build on love, right?" Right!

Speaking of looking good, maybe I'm just lovestruck because he is soooooooooooooooooooo good looking to me. And I had been telling my mom this. Maybe overemphasizing :look: So when she met him, she loved his personality--and he thought she was cute; she is :look:--but later when I was like "isn't he cute?" She was like ....yeah....but, I mean..... not like you think he is...:rofl: :rofl: That's cool. I had been wondering how this guy could be so perfect. Personality and brains, with model good looks. Turns out, I may be seeing things differently than other people. :lol: But that's cool! He's so fine :look:
 
Urban said:
That is strange. Does she normally visit?
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Urban Hi,her daughter is dying & my step son is challenge,so I think she wants SO and myself to prepare him..

*She came over one time before,when we won custody..That's it!

She keeps inviting to visit her in Ga,I don't feel comfortable about that..She's a very nice person,maybe she really wants to get to know me & see how I interact with her grand son..
 
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InchHighPrivateEye said:
Speaking of looking good, maybe I'm just lovestruck because he is soooooooooooooooooooo good looking to me. And I had been telling my mom this. Maybe overemphasizing :look: So when she met him, she loved his personality--and he thought she was cute; she is :look:--but later when I was like "isn't he cute?" She was like ....yeah....but, I mean..... not like you think he is...:rofl: :rofl: That's cool. I had been wondering how this guy could be so perfect. Personality and brains, with model good looks. Turns out, I may be seeing things differently than other people. :lol: But that's cool! He's so fine :look:
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This is cute :lol:
 
I think my SO is so fine too and no one else sees it like me. LOLOLOL
I'm just happy I think so....I've been known to be with uhm, less attractive people.
 
I asked him to pay for my whole move. He asked if I had any money to cover part of it. I said yes, a little. He asked if by me covering some of it would it leave me hurting. I said yes :look: he said he would take care of the entire amount, no worries. I felt really awkward to ask him but hopefully now I will be a little more comfortable since this is out of the way.
 
realized i've been talking to okc guy for a month now (idk when we started talking on okc, but i was looking at my phone log for when we moved our communication offline). explains why i feel i know him well and i've never even met him. :lol: i think our conversations are what made me start to lose interest in my crush (and all my friends telling me nooo. but really, dating someone b/c he's hot is wrong? how??? :look:).

anyway, looking forward to meeting him in person. my attention span is the shortest though :lol: (that may be my issue for dating in general as well. i get distracted by new & shiny. like a toddler...or 12 y/o). i blame my pickyness. it's hard to keep my attention if you don't meet the major things on my list.
 
InchHighPrivateEye said:
^^LOL. I was looking like "what do you mean, Mom? :look: I don't understand :look:" :lol:
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Fine 4s said:
I think my SO is so fine too and no one else sees it like me. LOLOLOL
I'm just happy I think so....I've been known to be with uhm, less attractive people.
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VeryBecoming said:
Sometimes I wonder if I'm being a bit delusional about his looks but I don't really care...I think he's soo handsome. Sighhhh :cupidarrow:
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:lachen: I can totally relate to these posts! :lol:
 
Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
I asked him to pay for my whole move. He asked if I had any money to cover part of it. I said yes, a little. He asked if by me covering some of it would it leave me hurting. I said yes :look: he said he would take care of the entire amount, no worries. I felt really awkward to ask him but hopefully now I will be a little more comfortable since this is out of the way.
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why is he asking all them questions?

Yes or No. Simple.

or am I crazy? I can see why one would feel awkward. all i wanna hear is "of course, babe"

anyway glad you're getting to save :lol:
 
FelaShrine said:
why is he asking all them questions?

Yes or No. Simple.

or am I crazy? I can see why one would feel awkward. all i wanna hear is "of course, babe"

anyway glad you're getting to save :lol:
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Because initially he was going to pay half and I was going to pay the other half. He wanted to know if I had my half basically. When I told him that I would be strapped if I paid what I said I would initially he said he would take care of it no worries. He just wanted to know what was needed monetarily.
 
So I realized that he was acting strange because he didn't want me to leave.

I told him I was ready to go and he ignored me! So we watched some more tv (I can't front I was comfortable) and then I told him again that I was leaving. This time i put on my shoes. That's when he starts talking about he needs help with something...Apparently he has a fly problem and needed to find out where they were coming from (huh? okkk). So I help him clean up the windowsill a bit and I think we found the problem....but then he started shuffling around the room instead of getting it together so he could walk me out. I know this man very well. I've been able to read him since we first met yearsss ago. After taking forever to put his shoes on we head out, and I spend the last 5 mins talking with him at the door of his building.

Even if the timing was right, I'm wary of his emotional attachment to me. But since it will probably be awhile before we even considered getting together (if we decided to ever get together) I shouldn't dwell on these things. His friendship is good enough for now.
 
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It's really sweet when SO calls me his "love" rather than boo or bae or any other silly name. Anytime I get a text that says "good morning love", it makes me smile.

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BGT said:
It's really sweet when SO calls me his "love" rather than boo or bae or any other silly name. Anytime I get a text that says "good morning love", it makes me smile.

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bf calls me his lady. "doing this or that with my lady." i might prefer if he called me his girl instead :lol:
 
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