2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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khadicurls said:
I don't think it's completely clear for either of us. Talking about being together is almost like the elephant in the room. We think about it separately but when we come together we talk about everything else but that. I don't know if we're afraid because we both caused a lot of hurt. The one thing I do know for sure is that we love each other a lot.
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khadicurlsi understand you. we haven't made any declarations or anything. we know how we feel about eachother. he knows what i require from him in order to move forward. he says he want to prove himself to me so i'm like 'okay then', lol.

yall definately need to get that convo going sooner than later though. maybe hint into it with talk of the future.
 
Awww...passed by a store, pulled over to inquire about a dress with SO. Once done, i brought it to the cashier and ran out to get my wallet from the car. Came back and the dress was paid for :)
Love it!
 
I'mma hurt this m*thaf*cka......

too much history = too many emotions.

I'm ashamed to admit that I still like him.... which is making me angry :nono:

Starting to feel kinda like Erica from L&HH.....only difference is that I'm emotional & violent with temper from hell like Joseline. :look:

He needs to stop f*ckin with me and stay the hell away! Don't call. Don't text. Don't contact anyone you know that knows me. Just GO AWAY. FOREVER. For your sake & mine. PLEASE LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!

He should know better. I'm not like these normal chicks, I'm crazy.:look: Sh*t ain't no m*thaf*ckin game.......

it might be time to change my number again or maybe just switch over to my other phone number for a while until I feel like I can deal........
 
I told him how I felt. I like being with him, but he can't be the one. The red flags that I usually avoid are waving in the breeze again, so I know I'll be letting him go peacefully. :(
 
I had a really really ruff morning. He took care of most of my chores and groceries before I woke up out of a pain filled funk. I thank God for this man.
 
He asked me if I was mad at him. I was like of course not, why? He said bc we normally talk several times a day and he was concerned. That made me go aw, yea I am a sappy...

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Je Ne Sais Quoi said:
Because initially he was going to pay half and I was going to pay the other half. He wanted to know if I had my half basically. When I told him that I would be strapped if I paid what I said I would initially he said he would take care of it no worries. He just wanted to know what was needed monetarily.
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ok got it. enjoy. :yep:
 
keyawarren said:
So I realized that he was acting strange because he didn't want me to leave.

I told him I was ready to go and he ignored me! So we watched some more tv (I can't front I was comfortable) and then I told him again that I was leaving. This time i put on my shoes. That's when he starts talking about he needs help with something...Apparently he has a fly problem and needed to find out where they were coming from (huh? okkk). So I help him clean up the windowsill a bit and I think we found the problem....but then he started shuffling around the room instead of getting it together so he could walk me out. I know this man very well. I've been able to read him since we first met yearsss ago. After taking forever to put his shoes on we head out, and I spend the last 5 mins talking with him at the door of his building.

Even if the timing was right, I'm wary of his emotional attachment to me. But since it will probably be awhile before we even considered getting together (if we decided to ever get together) I shouldn't dwell on these things. His friendship is good enough for now.
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Hmph! Sounds familiar, he confessed he misses me when I'm not around. He just wants to smother me :look:
 
Today is me and SO's one year anniversary. This day is so special to me because he's my first serious BF (I was a late bloomer) and he means the world to me. He's been letting me stay with him until my place is ready and I know my cats are driving him crazy, waking him up through the night, but he doesn't say anything. And I know it bothers him when I wake him up on his day off, while I get ready for work, but he still gives me a kiss goodbye. I love this man!
 
Eating dinner with his family always makes me feel sooo good about my family :lol: His family is craaaazy!! They be yellin and cussin and disrespectin the ish out of each other! :nono: :lol:
 
Rejecting people is soo difficult but it's better than my usual method of leading them on and then pulling a disappearing act. I'm getting better at it though. I'm growing, slowly but surely.
 
^^^Yasssssss! I did that all the time. Til I got that crazy text from that one dude and I said Oh lawd. I mean I cussed him out via text in response but then I changed my ways. Well, no, then I started going out with somebody I actually liked, but I presume I would have changed my ways :look:

Gon' send me a random midnight text after I haven't talked to you in months talmbout "So you aren't even gonna f**king apologize?" I thought he was in hiding in my house somewhere about to kill me so I got mad as hell. :look: Hmmph.
 
I love how some folks try my guy just because he ain't crazy outspoken like me. When he goes off they are super shocked and I laugh my arse off. It doesn't happen often but he and my daughter will come out of bag on that arse.
Sad thing is they feel all kinds of guilty afterwards. :lachen::lachen:

I wish I could attend the jazz concert tonite but I had to take a raincheck. We had a late breakfast. That shrimp scramble and lobster cheese toast was da bomb.com. :lick:

I 4got I told one of the girls in the front office at my doctors office a long time ago my dude was cute but he has a honker of a nose/he has a huge ball in the tip of that mthrsucker just like his mami. When he left for the bathroom she said he is cuuuute and really cares about you. I said honk if ya heard me. He walk up behind us!!!!!:lachen::lachen: We both screamed aloud w/laughter. Hell somethings take time to get used to. Don't get to close up with that camera though.............
 
We're going on our Busch Gardens extravaganza from Friday to Sunday :grin: the timeshare people think we're engaged :lachen: shhhh!! dont tell! we're such liars :lol:
 
We're growing apart... I don't like it and neither does he but we are so awkward around each other now after all these years...

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firecracker said:
I love how some folks try my guy just because he ain't crazy outspoken like me. When he goes off they are super shocked and I laugh my arse off. It doesn't happen often but he and my daughter will come out of bag on that arse.
Sad thing is they feel all kinds of guilty afterwards. :lachen::lachen:

I wish I could attend the jazz concert tonite but I had to take a raincheck. We had a late breakfast. That shrimp scramble and lobster cheese toast was da bomb.com. :lick:

I 4got I told one of the girls in the front office at my doctors office a long time ago my dude was cute but he has a honker of a nose/he has a huge ball in the tip of that mthrsucker just like his mami. When he left for the bathroom she said he is cuuuute and really cares about you. I said honk if ya heard me. He walk up behind us!!!!!:lachen::lachen: We both screamed aloud w/laughter. Hell somethings take time to get used to. Don't get to close up with that camera though.............
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OMG this sounds just like me and my dad. :lachen: We are very mild-mannered, friendly people in general, but if you make us mad watch out! :lachen: I will literally curse a person out and make them cry. :lachen: Then I will feel so bad afterwards and guilty. I also like to throw hits below the belt. :ohwell: It will weigh on me for days. :nono: I remember the last time I cursed out a white lady in the Chic Fil A parking lot I thought about that for about a week and I only said one sentence to her. :perplexed :lol:

Needless to say, I try not to go off on people often. :lol:
 
qchelle said:
We're going on our Busch Gardens extravaganza from Friday to Sunday :grin: the timeshare people think we're engaged :lachen: shhhh!! dont tell! we're such liars :lol:
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Lol! Aw I like seeing your post! Y'all are always doing something fun!

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firecracker said:
I love how some folks try my guy just because he ain't crazy outspoken like me. When he goes off they are super shocked and I laugh my arse off. It doesn't happen often but he and my daughter will come out of bag on that arse.
Sad thing is they feel all kinds of guilty afterwards. :lachen::lachen:

I wish I could attend the jazz concert tonite but I had to take a raincheck. We had a late breakfast. That shrimp scramble and lobster cheese toast was da bomb.com. :lick:

I 4got I told one of the girls in the front office at my doctors office a long time ago my dude was cute but he has a honker of a nose/he has a huge ball in the tip of that mthrsucker just like his mami. When he left for the bathroom she said he is cuuuute and really cares about you. I said honk if ya heard me. He walk up behind us!!!!!:lachen::lachen: We both screamed aloud w/laughter. Hell somethings take time to get used to. Don't get to close up with that camera though.............
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Isn't your daughter a Leo?? Bc that is what I do.

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i should not have told this guy i was getting a weave.:nono: he is so anxious and excited to see it. i shoulda just let him believe it was my real hair.:lol:
 
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