2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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So I'm proud of myself for getting the no sex without relationship speech out of the way. The chemistry is there, he gave me a kiss and I literally shivered. I was SO tempted! It did help that I had my insurance policy aka deliberately messy apartment lol.

Not so proud that I stumbled my way through the speech and not being as firm as I could have been.

Now I'm thinking it was all about a55 for him. It was only our 4th date and I haven't heard a peep from him since then. Something tells me it was just about sex since he had plans to meet up with friends after our date. Maybe I'm overthinking things?
 
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i'm sure there is a respectful, non-inflammatory way to tell both men and women that it may be in their best interest to wait to become physically intimate with someone for a laundry list of reasons that have nothing to do with how respectable it makes you.
 
When I first started downloading audiobooks, I got a free "First Listen" and it was rather funny. Today I found the transcript online and one of my friends said she believes she has been either character at one time or another in her life. Now that I think of it, I too think I might've tried on either party's shoes sometime in my past. :giggle:

Anyway, I hope you enjoy it as much as I did:

Dear Amanda


DEAR AMANDA,

I think we have made the right decision. Thank you for your love these past five months. I want you to know that our time together will live inside me in a special place in my heart. It is best if we do not phone or write.
Love always,
JOEY

DEAR AMANDA,

I dialed you last night because the Lucy "pie" episode was on and I knew you'd want to see it. Anyway, while I was leaving a message I accidentally punched in your message-retrieval code. Sorry about that. Who's Francisco? Just curious.
JOEY

DEAR AMANDA,

I realized that I still have your set of six Japanese sake cups that I bought for you on our trip downtown and was wondering when might be a good time to drop them by. You can give me a call at the usual number, or maybe at the office before seven, but then try the car, or I'm usually home now by seven-forty-five. I would like to get these back to you, as I know you must be thinking about them. This will be my last letter.
Regards,
JOEY

DEAR AMANDA,

It was a lucky coincidence that my cat leaped on your speed-dial button last night, as it gave us a chance to talk again. Afterward, I was wondering what you meant when you said, "It's over, Joey. Get it into your head." So many interpretations. Oh, I found myself on your street last night and noticed a yellow Mustang that I don't remember ever seeing at your apartment complex. Does this belong to the mysterious Francisco I've heard rumors about? I left one of the sake cups at your front door; it happened to be in my car.
With respect,
JOEY

DEAR AMANDA,

This will be the last letter I write you. I hate to hurt you like this, but I'm seeing someone new. You'd like her. But please do not call Marisa at the Kings Kafe where she waitresses from noon to eight. Incidentally, I heard that Francisco had or is having a tax problem. Should I meet with him? I'm over it all now and would be glad to help. Also, a word of warning: Latins. One woman is never enough.
JOEY

P.S. Do you have my red Pentel pen? I really need it. Page me when you get this.

DEAR AMANDA,

Guess what. I got a weekend job washing windows at your apartment building! The guys in legal think I'm nuts, but it's something I've always enjoyed doing. Remember how I used to love to do the windshield even at the full-service pump? Just wanted to warn you, as I will probably be wearing your favorite outfit of mine: the tan pants, my blue Gap shirt, and my foam "Go Gators" hat. It's so easy to start things up again, and I wouldn't want to think it was because of my newly acquired stomach ripples. By the way, there's someone named Francisco trying to pick up girls on the Internet. Hmm. I wonder.
J.

DEAR AMANDA,

This will be the last letter I write to you. I'm quite upset that you changed your phone without a forwarding number. There could be an emergency, and I'm still in posession of those fancy upholstered hangers of yours. Marisa questioned them the other day and it wasn't fun. They're probably too dear to you for me to throw them out, as we bought them together at the swap meet the day your mother raved about me, telling you I was "pleasant." Please come by and pick them up; they're seriously damaging my relationship. A good time would be any Wednesday after five but not after seven, Fridays all day except lunch, Monday is good, and the weekend, anytime. Also Tuesday.
JOEY

DEAR AMANDA,

Valentine's Day is tomorrow and I hope you don't mind my throwing this note through your window, as the post would be too slow. The rock it's tied to came from our desert trip! I'm wondering if you'd like to get together for a quick lunch on the fourteenth? I need to get my letters back from you, and could you bring this one, too? I'll meet you at Wavy Dave's, at our old table. I'll bring the hangers, and I also want you to have the small photo of me nude skydiving. I don't think I can handle all the sake cups but I could certainly bring a few. You can even bring Francisco if you want; maybe I could help him sort out his heavy urology bills. Can you let me know soon? I'm waiting outside on the lawn.

This will be the last letter I write to you.
Love you always,
JOEY

February 16, 1998
The New Yorker
By Steve Martin
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I'm so mad at SO right now. :nono: I'm staying with him and his roommate until my bedroom is ready at my brother's house. He's converting an outer building into a livable space and he needs to do the floors this week. I texted SO and told him I didn't think his roommate liked me because when I say hi, he doesn't say it back. SO then texted his roommate about it and RM said he couldn't tell if I was speaking to him or SO because I speak too low. To make matters worse, SO is working tonight, so when I get off, his RM has to let me in the apartment. I am so mad at the awkward position he put me in. I might just stay at my mom's house eating fried chicken and watching the Olympics until SO gets off. :ohwell:
 
We haven't seen each other/had sex since Saturday! :( We're seeing/having sex with each other tomorrow tho :grin: I hope he doesn't get on my nerves from now until then, so I can keep being horny :look: lol
 
SweetNic_JA said:
He's here and safe. Thank God.
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Aw I'm happy for you. I know you been waiting for this! Have fun!

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
FelaShrine said:
The hell is stopping you? :lol:

how long yall been together?
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:lol: We've been together since January. We were being celibate. I mean, are. We are being celibate. :look: But we had a close call a couple weeks ago that I almost posted about. I'm longwinded so I deleted all that mess but long story short....yeah...the flesh is weak. Glove was on and everything and as we're clicking off lights and tvs and stuff :look: :look: he got a phone call from a family member that never calls so he answered thinking it was an emergency and she was sounding all suicidal and stuff. I took it as a sign. :look:

So I retreated all the way back to my original position and he was really disappointed at first, understandably because it was about to go down :look:, but he's been really sweet and gracious. We've been talking about living together next year--he's been showing me bigger places that he's looked at--and he knows I'm not doing that until we're married so now I wanna ride this thing on out and see what happens. :look:

I need to take my own advice and stop being all at his house late at night though unless I want to slip again. That imprint just be lookin right at me when he wears the sweatpants :look:

I have a vent too. I need to come back and post that mess.
 
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InchHighPrivateEye said:
I need to take my own advice and stop being all at his house late at night though unless I want to slip again. That imprint just be lookin right at me when he wears the sweatpants :look:

I have a vent too. I need to come back and post that mess.
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:lachen::lachen:I know EXACTLY the kind of imprint you're talking about lol
 
Paris was awesome! He was late picking me up at the airport but other than that it was perfect. We were really cheesy and kissed in the rain in while walking down the Champs-Élysées. He was so affectionate and attentive the entire time. There was a problem with my return flight and he figured it all out while I took a nap. I said I'd do it when I woke up but he was like don't worry about it, this your vacation.

We were at a cafe and I had this amazing view of the Eiffel Tower and he was facing the building. I asked if he wanted to switch seats for a while and he said no, he had an amazing view too. I'm thinking he's talking about some pastries but I turn around there's just a fat chef. I laugh and I'm like uh huh, I'm sure you do and he was like I meant looking at you. I'm not used to him saying nice things so I was like uhhh awww :look: then went back to eating :lol:

I realize he's a bit of a snob though. Nothing impresses him (which might explain some of my problems with him.) He was already talking about where we should go next. I can't wait!
 
Day 3 of the Breakup aftermath. Greving but I am feeling a little better!1 Can't wait to mingle again (In a few months) One's lost is another gain!!
 
bf is coming over tomorrow :yay: and im irritated to say this after a post about being romantic in paris :look: :lol: but we have a thing this weekend and a concert a couple states away weekend after next, and we really need to iron out where we're going for vacay in nov/dec. i hope my avocados are ripe by tomorrow night bc theyre DINNER!

also, my one friend at work asked me today if my bf is mexican :rofl: i have described him and talked about him in a manner that is very conspicuously absent of any ethnic identifiers :look: i wondered if anyone would ever ask or if they would just roll with it :lol: when i told bf about it he thought it was hilarious and said we should go out for drinks. so the three of us + her hubby will do just that next weekend.
 
i drunk dialed my ex last night :lol: i only vaguely remember our conversation.

i miss him :( i'm bummed b/c i was always in the mindset of me leaving, so i felt i protected myself from catching real feelings (obviously i liked/cared about him, but was always holding back).

outside of his irrational aversion to babies :lol:, he's def the type of man i hope to spend the rest of my life. i've been lucky to date two really really amazing men. no wonder i'm so picky and like HMMM to everyone else. :lachen:


cannot say i'm not shallow though. that's become VERY clear.


gonna have to work on that one.
 
Next weekend, I'm meeting.up with someone from my past. I really don't have much interest in him, but it's something to do right now. I'm leaving myself open for whatever.

Hate that I have a crush on my neighbor who lives with his girlfriend. I would never cross that line, but the feeling I get when I see him is something I want to feel when I'm looking at my boyfriend or boyfriend-to-be. It's a giddy, butterfly feeling. Haven't felt that in a while.

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