2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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My friends and I keep having the same convo on why we are still single. It's hard to settle when you've seen the damage its done before.

On another note, I'm bored to tears with these guys.
 
If you're broken and mourning the loss or end of a relationship, think logically about whether or not you really "lost" anything.

Was the person:

Trustworthy;
Someone with whom you had shared values;
Did you share the same level of commitment & did he want the same result in the same timeframe as you?

Maybe your space was cleared for what you truly deserve - not just in the physical, but in the spiritual realm.
 
Just because I said I wanted to be friends doesn't mean you should stop wearing lotion when you come around me. I can write my name on your legs.
 
It's feels good to be on the same page with someone. No BS. Haven't had that in a long time. Funny how things work out. I'll be moving to Charlotte in a couple of weeks with my sister, which means closer....instead of 12 hours, it will be about six...

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
I really can't believe this man, he's really trying to "feel some kind of way" about me going out of town. His words he's "coping":lol: he's been in a pissy mood ever since Sunday. Hell he won't even give me none!:blush: It doesn't help that I'm ovulating:look: but I guess it's a good thing he won't give me any......
 
I have a crush on my friend. Should I tell him?

Are you looking for a relationship? Then why not? But I wouldn't do it unless we're sorta on the same page...

ok. i just needed a place to vent. i may be overreacting since its close to that TOM, but im soo annoyed. so while visiting a friend 2 weeks ago in PA (i live in the DMV), i met a guy. this guy has been texting me since we met, but he really annoys me. Ive been entertaining him b/c right now, Im going through a dry spell and don't really have any dates. :look:

Strike 1, he texts me to tell me i should call him sometime. i told him, same goes for you, if you would like to speak to me, you should call me. (i thought this was common sense)

Strike 2, he texts me asking me to tell him about myself. i told him thats a conversation that should be held verbally, im not texting that type of conversation. He tells me I have alot of principals and he feels like he's walking on egg shells. :drunk:

strike 3, Saturday he asks me what i'm doing that night. I told him im going to a friends bday dinner. he gives me the :sad: face, saying that he hoped to see me. wtf!! Im confused b/c he never told or asked me. He said, oh i was hoping we could go out tonight. thats something you should ask me prior to the day of.... 3 hours before especially when you live in another state. :nono:

strike 4, im talking to him today, and he asks when am i going to see you again. he tells me he wants to come down and i should plan something for him. DOUBLE WTF! I told him he is the man, and he should make the plans, and let me know. He told me since I live in the area, i should be the one to plan. I was really annoyed by this, b/c lately i've been meeting men that want me to make all the plans and figure out the times and places ect. and I'm sick of it. i mean, tell me movies, bowling, park, something. but im not planning dates, and i dont plan on going back to pa anytime soon either. So, we go back and forth about this, first he says okay thats fine, then he says, well i think you should do it.

At this point, i am fine with him not coming down, b/c im soo annoyed. Okay. end vent. I really think i should just tell him dont bother calling me anymore, b/c i don't think we are compatible. Seriously he is just annoying the hell out of me right now, but again it could be PMS. smh :perplexed: i mean, i feel like im too old to tell a grown man (29 year old man), who has my phone #, to call me, and not text me i should call him sometime. i shouldn't have to tell a grown man, that its ridiculous to have conversations concerning tell me about yourself via text msg.

Stop responding. I know what being in that position is like...enjoying some sort of attention. But it's wasted energy...

If you're broken and mourning the loss or end of a relationship, think logically about whether or not you really "lost" anything.

Was the person:

Trustworthy;
Someone with whom you had shared values;
Did you share the same level of commitment & did he want the same result in the same timeframe as you?

Maybe your space was cleared for what you truly deserve - not just in the physical, but in the spiritual realm.

Even if the relationship was great we can still benefit from the personal growth too :yep:
 
Omg I can't stand when old guys try to talk to you...this man damn near talked me to death especially when he realized that we went to the same college...he was nice but no.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
I really can't believe this man, he's really trying to "feel some kind of way" about me going out of town. His words he's "coping" he's been in a pissy mood ever since Sunday. Hell he won't even give me none! It doesn't help that I'm ovulating but I guess it's a good thing he won't give me any......





I went to Essence Festival without my SO and he wanted to pout too (it had been planned in January, when we had just started dating because I really wanted to go and I couldn't risk planning on going with him that far in advance...just in case...:look:) I was shocked that he was so pissy because he's known about it forever but it was cute. "I hope you have fun at your little concert with your girls. I guess yall gon' be dancing and having drinks and stuff..." He has an all week conference in a city about an hour away next week and he was saying "that's okay. I'll be on my own trip in a couple weeks anyway." Well that's different, boo. Because you already invited me and I'll be there. :look:
 
I went to Essence Festival without my SO and he wanted to pout too (it had been planned in January, when we had just started dating because I really wanted to go and I couldn't risk planning on going with him that far in advance...just in case...:look:) I was shocked that he was so pissy because he's known about it forever but it was cute. "I hope you have fun at your little concert with your girls. I guess yall gon' be dancing and having drinks and stuff..." He has an all week conference in a city about an hour away next week and he was saying "that's okay. I'll be on my own trip in a couple weeks anyway." Well that's different, boo. Because you already invited me and I'll be there. :look:

Yah, sounds familiar! Hi hater!:look:
Guess who's happy that my flight has been delayed:drunk:
 
bf is going to give me swimming lessons. he knows im a scaredy cat punk and warned me that we'd have to agree he'd ask me to do things i wont want to do :rofl:
 
My current crush is mad cool and extremely intelligent. But 1) I don't think he's into me and 2) we don't even live in the same country. *le sigh* always wanting what I can't have.
 
Today, I got a proposal smack dab in the middle of Home Depot....from his daughter. "Ms. Deltadreamland, will you be my step-mommy?" He and I both looked at each other and smiled. This little girl moves fast-much faster than him and me. Lol!
 
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i miss him a lot today. bwaaaaaaaaaah... after we had our discussion about my feelings regarding the distance, he said that he'd come out to me to hang out for awhile on thursdays since he doesnt work fridays (the friday off-day/saturday work day has been a bug up my ezz for awhile now :lol:). i hope he does :kiss4:
 
Big shout out to my sisters in the Chi-Chi. But question how da heck do ya'll breathe in this 100 degree air? I stepped out of my meeting today and felt like I'd walked into the dry sauna....but with too much air....lol.

I'm upstairs chillin on the Magnificent Mile while all the other agents are downstairs drinking it up. Typical yt boy ish after a job well done...lol.

Ah well...tomorrow is a fly day for me, so back to my very handsome, very sexy husband...I guess I must be missing him.:yep:
 
deltadreamland said:
I always look forward to your updates! I'm smiling for you.

:hugs: thanks so much :)....I love your posts, always gives me hope :yep:.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
oo i'm liking him. i think b/c we have similar work experience (working in urban middle schools) + he's actually familiar with the stuff i'm passionate about :lol: (TX man...).

texted w/ him & my crush today.
 
Planning our 1 year anniversary. We're going back to the spot we had our first date, we haven't even been back since! Hopefully we can create our first day, minus my giggles :lol:
 
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Are you still dating that boy you told me about because he sure is commenting on every photo of yours lol

Me: oh you've noticed lol. How do I make it stop? We are just friends now, but I think he might be weird lol.

Funny, today I was trying to figure out how to prevent a few people on my friend list from commenting on or seeing things. He was definitely on my mind to add. Too bad Facebook no longer prevents comments (unless you block views too). The privacy settings are now all or nothing.
 
I dont like finding out I am sooooo right about this guy. :nono: Like spot on. I wish my friend had listened to me but she'll learn like I had to through experience.
 
smh... this is cute...

bowtie has been on fb pretty excited about his friends having a baby.

"Say what you will about mandatory parenting class- I just made a pretty bi7chin' infant brain stimulatin' mobil. Dry run going well."

"That baby'll go to sleep drooling and wake up reading Latin. Won't know what hit it."

:lol:

dangit. smh.
 
my friend from childhood who i was in her wedding July of last yr just had her 1st baby .........i'm happy for her but it just makes me see how single I am lol
 
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