2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III
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*SkolarStar*
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So last week I saw my middle school crush at church. Yes, you read that right. Middle school. Then today I went to office max to return some ink that I bought 30 minutes prior to and just decided exchange for the hp brand instead. As I'm walking down the street, I see him again! Stopped, chatted for a moment, he walked with me to office max and then I went on my very way.
He still fine.
He still fine.
tinkat
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meesch said:um so... theres a possibility that i just woke up on the wrong side of the bed today and im really cranky and irritable but... did bf eat my ENTIRE CONTAINER of blueberries and then not even mention it? i had two and now i only see one... um... that really pisses me off
That would have irritated me too lol.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
Keshieshimmer
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Thanks for the invite for a board game night with 3 other couples. Fail. Talk about being the 7th wheel.
JerriBlank
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Omg,why is this man sooookk dayummmm thirsty? Like,seriously dude? Where is your pride? So you want to be a straight heaux for all these years,and now that you're over 25, you feel like you have to make some kinda mad dash to the altar? Umm,hayle nawl sir!
I don't know you from a can of paint,don't want you,and you are not about to keep bugging me to death. That's not cute,its certifiable! Plus when I was trying to be nice,and actually responded to your text,you tried to cop an attitide and reply with a one word answer because I took too long to reply? Lmao, *Emmanuel Hudson voice* BOY BYE!!!
You are in no.position to ever play hard to get crazo,esp with someone who can barely stand you. Sheezus!
*cranks Destiny's Child*
You make me wanna throw my pager out the window,
Tell mci to cut my phone off,
Break my lease so I can move,
Cuz you a bug-a-boo, a bug-a-booooo!
I don't know you from a can of paint,don't want you,and you are not about to keep bugging me to death. That's not cute,its certifiable! Plus when I was trying to be nice,and actually responded to your text,you tried to cop an attitide and reply with a one word answer because I took too long to reply? Lmao, *Emmanuel Hudson voice* BOY BYE!!!
You are in no.position to ever play hard to get crazo,esp with someone who can barely stand you. Sheezus!
*cranks Destiny's Child*
You make me wanna throw my pager out the window,
Tell mci to cut my phone off,
Break my lease so I can move,
Cuz you a bug-a-boo, a bug-a-booooo!
I miss hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiim 
VeryBecoming
Devil's Avocado
It's been like 3 weeks since I got some and I just realized I'll be on my period while in Paris.
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It's funny, while on our trip, everyone's man had an attitude about us being gone; talk about being a HATER!
I get's home and this man still has a slight attitude, taking about he's on his first day of fasting for Ramadan. He hadn't eaten, had a drink, smoke, cursed, had sex, I was out of town etc. everything was just all bad in his book.
I was like...REALLY?!??! I didn't know you were Muslim!?!
Needless to say he broke his fast (he cursed while telling me why he was mad) the first day and then this morning
I get's home and this man still has a slight attitude, taking about he's on his first day of fasting for Ramadan. He hadn't eaten, had a drink, smoke, cursed, had sex, I was out of town etc. everything was just all bad in his book.
I was like...REALLY?!??! I didn't know you were Muslim!?!
Needless to say he broke his fast (he cursed while telling me why he was mad) the first day and then this morning
C@ssandr@
formerly known as "keyawarren"
Is there something astrological going on between Scorpio men and Capricorn women? There are 3 Scorpio situations in orbit in my life...There's too much happening for it to be a coincidence.
On a related note, I saw my ex. We chatted a bit and it seemed so awkward for him. I could sense a sadness. Even though it was a bad, bad, bad, break up, I wish him well. I really hope he's ok.
But that doesn't mean I'll be in touch....
On a related note, I saw my ex. We chatted a bit and it seemed so awkward for him. I could sense a sadness. Even though it was a bad, bad, bad, break up, I wish him well. I really hope he's ok.
But that doesn't mean I'll be in touch....
kismettt
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the upside is that he seems as physically attracted to me as i am to him 
which is probably obvious since he hit on me. he's always calling me beautiful/hot/etc.
he sent me a text yesterday "it's as hot as you outside". stupid. i went outside and it was really really hot.
i need more ideas for dates that involve him being shirtless i challenged him to a push up contest. (and then was like, "o i did push ups yesterday and today. i'll lose. but you go ahead"). SHAMELESS.
which is probably obvious since he hit on me. he's always calling me beautiful/hot/etc.he sent me a text yesterday "it's as hot as you outside". stupid. i went outside and it was really really hot.
i need more ideas for dates that involve him being shirtless
i challenged him to a push up contest. (and then was like, "o i did push ups yesterday and today. i'll lose. but you go ahead"). SHAMELESS.pinkness27
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MsDee14 said:
I cannot stop laughing. Hahahahaha.
tinkat
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He texted me today.
Him: So I got a secret...
Me: What???
Him: I got a girlfriend
Me: who is she?
Him: According to my dad it's you! Lol
Me: Are you serious
Him:yes
Me: Why he say that?
Him: So my dad calls me this afternoon and says,"Your mother showed me pictures of your new girlfriend. She's pretty!"
That made me
. His daddy speaking this into existence. Funny bc we had a conversation about where this was going last night...well early morning (bc we talked until the sun came out).
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
Him: So I got a secret...
Me: What???
Him: I got a girlfriend
Me: who is she?
Him: According to my dad it's you! Lol
Me: Are you serious
Him:yes
Me: Why he say that?
Him: So my dad calls me this afternoon and says,"Your mother showed me pictures of your new girlfriend. She's pretty!"
That made me
. His daddy speaking this into existence. Funny bc we had a conversation about where this was going last night...well early morning (bc we talked until the sun came out).Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
Oasis
grabbing life by the pussy
i'm really starting to not want him over. he stays eating up my food and trashing my place. i understand that i can be a bit anal when it comes to cleanliness but it's like he has no respect for my apartment at all. i have to clean up after him every.single.time he leaves. and i do appreciate him cooking (he's an amazing cook ) but he leaves my kitchen in chaos.
) but he leaves my kitchen in chaos.It's been like 3 weeks since I got some and I just realized I'll be on my period while in Paris.
Girl, go straight onto next months birth control pills! Lol
Softerlove
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There some terrible terrible advice being given in that other thread...just because your married/have an SO...let me stop.
Bad advice should be a crime
Bad advice should be a crime
bumblb87
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Him: Hey what's up, this is ******.
Me: Hey! What's up? : )
Him: Nothing. How are you?
Me: I'm good. Just watching tv.
*1 min pause*
Him: Text me when you have time.
Me: (no response)
Soooo, you initiate a text conversation with me and expect me to keep it going. Naw son, haha!!! I'm done putting in work dealing with guys. You want me, you will do the chasing. Wish I had known The Rules years ago...
Me: Hey! What's up? : )
Him: Nothing. How are you?
Me: I'm good. Just watching tv.
*1 min pause*
Him: Text me when you have time.
Me: (no response)
Soooo, you initiate a text conversation with me and expect me to keep it going. Naw son, haha!!! I'm done putting in work dealing with guys. You want me, you will do the chasing. Wish I had known The Rules years ago...
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VeryBecoming
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CarLiTa
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Updates on my love life: well, there's nooo love buuut some funny or interesting stories.
1. The inventor is done with me. Just plain ol done. I got back from out of town, and I called 2 days later. He didn't pick up (actually, he sent the call to VM after a few rings), and so I left an upbeat message about being back, hoping he is too, and that we should catch up about his travels and blah blah. It's now 5 days later? Not even an acknowledgment of the call, not a birthday wish either.
It's really interesting when some guys get bitter about things not turning out the way they wanted (relationship or whatever) and decide to stop being cordial. Did I break your heart? I don't THINK I did (I mean, I guess I coud have been more upfront, but, I told you the truth right?). It's especially interesting because it's these boys who are so used to winning at life that show this bitterness... The ones who are a little cocky about their successes in other parts of their lives that us NOT working out seems to be some affront on who they are. I just wanna be like: chill out, it's not all about you! We don't have what it takes to make this a relationship, unfortunately, but that doesn't mean I think any less of your awesomeness. Dang
And I find it particularly eye-opening that you're ready to go completely MIA because you didn't get your way
I see you.
2. The Californian sent me a message on Facebook wishing me a happy birthday, saying that he's been meaning to call me to catch up about my trip and about life in general... And to let him know when's a good time to call. Oh, and that he misses me.
Ah, right. Cause, you know, the people who want to call me, especially for my birthday, send me a message via social media first to ask if it's okay to call...
Sent a polite, enthusiastic response that vaguely addressed the 'when to call' question and totally glossed over the miss you part.
buuut some funny or interesting stories.1. The inventor is done with me. Just plain ol done. I got back from out of town, and I called 2 days later. He didn't pick up (actually, he sent the call to VM after a few rings), and so I left an upbeat message about being back, hoping he is too, and that we should catch up about his travels and blah blah. It's now 5 days later? Not even an acknowledgment of the call, not a birthday wish either.
It's really interesting when some guys get bitter about things not turning out the way they wanted (relationship or whatever) and decide to stop being cordial. Did I break your heart? I don't THINK I did (I mean, I guess I coud have been more upfront, but, I told you the truth right?). It's especially interesting because it's these boys who are so used to winning at life that show this bitterness... The ones who are a little cocky about their successes in other parts of their lives that us NOT working out seems to be some affront on who they are. I just wanna be like: chill out, it's not all about you! We don't have what it takes to make this a relationship, unfortunately, but that doesn't mean I think any less of your awesomeness. Dang
And I find it particularly eye-opening that you're ready to go completely MIA because you didn't get your way I see you.2. The Californian sent me a message on Facebook wishing me a happy birthday, saying that he's been meaning to call me to catch up about my trip and about life in general... And to let him know when's a good time to call. Oh, and that he misses me.
Ah, right. Cause, you know, the people who want to call me, especially for my birthday, send me a message via social media first to ask if it's okay to call...
Sent a polite, enthusiastic response that vaguely addressed the 'when to call' question and totally glossed over the miss you part.
CarLiTa
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3. Have never been hit on by a woman as hard as I did last night Was hanging with some friends of friends, and this girl took a strong liking to me... Too strong I had never before been asked if I'm curious about women, if I don't find women attractive, etc. etc. Then, at one point she made a comment about Beyonce not being all that. When the others exclaimed that she had crazy high standards and asked who meets her standards, she flat out said: well, Carlita is the standard. 
Then, when I talked about needing to head home, the girl said she would pay for my cab and make sure we take me right to my doorstep. There was a collective pause, like and then everybody just died laughing. Said girl does not believe herself to be a lesbian or into women like that... But she lost all credibility with me last night.
4. Guy from my program wanted to do something for my birthday... We've been meaning to meet up to talk about something, so he was like ah, we gotta celebrate! What do you say: strawberries, whipped cream, wine, and a movie??
the heck?!!? Ultimately, we met up in bright daylight, ate strawberries (no whipped cream, no wine) and had the best conversation under a tree along the river. We think so much alike. Might catch a foreign film together soon.
I've gotten REALLY close to a friend this weekend, and she's been so great. I'll have to make sure to go all out for her birthday next year. So glad we will be living together. This is going to be great!
Was hanging with some friends of friends, and this girl took a strong liking to me... Too strong I had never before been asked if I'm curious about women, if I don't find women attractive, etc. etc. Then, at one point she made a comment about Beyonce not being all that. When the others exclaimed that she had crazy high standards and asked who meets her standards, she flat out said: well, Carlita is the standard. Then, when I talked about needing to head home, the girl said she would pay for my cab and make sure we take me right to my doorstep. There was a collective pause, like and then everybody just died laughing. Said girl does not believe herself to be a lesbian or into women like that... But she lost all credibility with me last night. 4. Guy from my program wanted to do something for my birthday... We've been meaning to meet up to talk about something, so he was like ah, we gotta celebrate! What do you say: strawberries, whipped cream, wine, and a movie??
the heck?!!? Ultimately, we met up in bright daylight, ate strawberries (no whipped cream, no wine) and had the best conversation under a tree along the river. We think so much alike. Might catch a foreign film together soon. I've gotten REALLY close to a friend this weekend, and she's been so great. I'll have to make sure to go all out for her birthday next year. So glad we will be living together. This is going to be great!
Softerlove
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Coldstone was filled with couples last night...so I got an "Ours" just for me & kept it moving.
Saw girls taking an Loss to be with some dudes....smh
Saw girls taking an Loss to be with some dudes....smh
Fine 4s
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CarLiTa said:Updates on my love life: well, there's nooo love
1. The inventor is done with me. Just plain ol done. I got back from out of town, and I called 2 days later. He didn't pick up (actually, he sent the call to VM after a few rings), and so I left an upbeat message about being back, hoping he is too, and that we should catch up about his travels and blah blah. It's now 5 days later? Not even an acknowledgment of the call, not a birthday wish either.
It's really interesting when some guys get bitter about things not turning out the way they wanted (relationship or whatever) and decide to stop being cordial. Did I break your heart? I don't THINK I did (I mean, I guess I coud have been more upfront, but, I told you the truth right?). It's especially interesting because it's these boys who are so used to winning at life that show this bitterness... The ones who are a little cocky about their successes in other parts of their lives that us NOT working out seems to be some affront on who they are. I just wanna be like: chill out, it's not all about you! We don't have what it takes to make this a relationship, unfortunately, but that doesn't mean I think any less of your awesomeness. Dang
2. The Californian sent me a message on Facebook wishing me a happy birthday, saying that he's been meaning to call me to catch up about my trip and about life in general... And to let him know when's a good time to call. Oh, and that he misses me.
Ah, right. Cause, you know, the people who want to call me, especially for my birthday, send me a message via social media first to ask if it's okay to call...
Sent a polite, enthusiastic response that vaguely addressed the 'when to call' question and totally glossed over the miss you part.
I also don't think all men need new female friends like that. So if it didn't work out then what's the point in him being "friends?" So he can be reminded of what he didn't/couldn't get? Lolol
SummerSolstice
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its crazy how 1 text can make you so excited 
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