2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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We went to the movies last night to see Ted. Tell me why he asked if this movie was based on a true story.
I'm like really? A true story about a talking teddy bear?
 
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I went out for the first time in months and had a good time. I'mma try to find my husband after I take my GMAT test :look:. Two dudes asked for my number and I gave it out last night. I'm not attracted to them, but they seem like great connects in terms of what I want to do. Graduated from great schools, doing great things. I'll text and keep in touch. You absolutely never know if their friends are on point!

I'll be going out in another couple weeks.
 
So... my new personal trainer has taken a liken to lil 'ol me.
If he wasn't so damn fine I wouldn't even think twice about dude.
I wonder how things are going to play out:o
 
I'm so frustrated and thinking about canceling this date. I don't like men who don't put thought into planning dates. He's had several days to figure something out. It's the day of the date and he still doesn't know.
 
I don't think you overreacted. He could have kept this rude thoughts to himself.

LovelyLouboutin said:
Feeling somewhat offended and not sure if I'm overreacting. Few weeks ago I went with a friend to an nfl players bday party. Talked/met a lot of people. One dude got a little attached I guess, people must not have actual convos with him at the club. After the party he asking what I'm about to do I say 'I don't know I'm gonna see what my friend is doing I think we're going to nflers house'. So this dude was like "wow I didn't think you were that type I'm surprised". Basically insinuating that I'm a groupie. I told him 'why would I go with you when I haven't even known you 2 hours instead of going with my friends'. The day after the party he text me nice meeting you. I went in on him. He said "Yeah, i'm sorry about that...I drank too much last night...just wanted to apologize for that". I didn't reply. I was drunk is not an excuse to me. This morning at 9:30am dude text me "did you go to LeBron's party". I almost went in on him again. So you call me a groupie and then ask me if I went to another bball party?! I felt he was calling me a groupie again.
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VirtuousBeauty said:
I don't think you overreacted. He could have kept this rude thoughts to himself.
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Yea I didn't respond to his text this morning cause I wouldnt have said nothing nice.

I tell ya. I'm the sweetest person you've ever met but since hit 30 in April my fuse is a little shorter with men. I will go in on you if you come at me sideways/disrespectful/rudely. I'm tired of men thinking they can get away with that ish.
 
It was our 11 month anniversary and I treated him to dinner for the 2nd time. He bought the movie tickets and we saw Madea. :lol:
 
bf wants to get a job at the place im trying to get a job. he said if we both get hired we could live together. well idk about him but im planning to do my damnest do get hired there anyway :lol:
 
LovelyLouboutin said:
Feeling somewhat offended and not sure if I'm overreacting. Few weeks ago I went with a friend to an nfl players bday party. Talked/met a lot of people. One dude got a little attached I guess, people must not have actual convos with him at the club. After the party he asking what I'm about to do I say 'I don't know I'm gonna see what my friend is doing I think we're going to nflers house'. So this dude was like "wow I didn't think you were that type I'm surprised". Basically insinuating that I'm a groupie. I told him 'why would I go with you when I haven't even known you 2 hours instead of going with my friends'. The day after the party he text me nice meeting you. I went in on him. He said "Yeah, i'm sorry about that...I drank too much last night...just wanted to apologize for that". I didn't reply. I was drunk is not an excuse to me. This morning at 9:30am dude text me "did you go to LeBron's party". I almost went in on him again. So you call me a groupie and then ask me if I went to another bball party?! I felt he was calling me a groupie again.
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delete his #. You should have don e this the first time he said "didnt think you were THAT type"..very presumption and condescending
 
FelaShrine said:
delete his #. You should have don e this the first time he said "didnt think you were THAT type"..very presumption and condescending
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Oh I didn't even save it in my phone that night. When he first text me I had to ask who it was.
 
Just came back from a friend's b-day party where literally every single male there was either married or in a practically engaged to a guest. There were a couple single women there, but at one point all the couples were just cuddling/kissing each other and it was a little awkward.:perplexed:look: I want a SO.:crybaby:
 
SO this is so annoying to me... he waits til I pass out in his lap to tell me whats on his mind. ITS SO ANNOYING. I mean like the cute stuff. I want to hear it when I'm awake. And every time I pretend I'm asleep to hear it I just fall asleep -_-
 
He called me from Cambridge. OMG I miss him so much! It sounds weird but I really can feel that he's further way. I mentioned how we're not going to talk as much while he's on vacation and he was like don't worry, I'll find time no matter where I am. Then I was joking about not talking until September and he was getting all huffy and went through all the ways I can contact him.

When we were hanging up he was like hey honey...see you in Paris. I diiiiiiiied!


meesch said:
i feel kinda bad that i dont really like many of the people in bf's life :ohwell: i think at some point its going to earn me a side eye.
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It took me a while to start liking my bf's friends. Most of them I still don't like. They're just not my kind of people. I've never said I don't like them to him, just that I think they're odd or something along those lines. The other day I realized hmm...that might upset him. I mean, these are his friends and I'm basically saying they suck at being humans. I'm going to try and like them but some of them are just...useless IMO.
 
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I met this dude yesterday. Cool peeps, nice conversation--apparently he's liked me for a long time. I never paid him any attention before. I kinda like him, I guess.

too bad I don't know his name. :look:




ETA: I don't know much but one thing I do know is that I know how to spot & read certain kinda men--in any environment. In the mass of d-boys, hood figgas and baby daddies I encountered yesterday, I managed to spot the one dude who was childless, mom used to be a SAHM & his parents were married until his dad died. And yes, we had the marriage conversation yesterday too. He already knows how on the second date I ask a man if he plans on or sees himself marrying me:look: (it weeds out the bad ones, they run :lachen:)-- he called me crazy then jumped to making the party our first date. lol Technically it was, we ended up getting dinner and walking/talking downtown @ the harbor. that was fun.

IDK if I'm going to answer right away when he calls.....
 
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SMH loser needs to stop texting me "are you busy?" i said yes. I should have just not responded.


And this other guy is cute but ithink he is on the rebound -___________________________________________-
 
kandake said:
I'm so frustrated and thinking about canceling this date. I don't like men who don't put thought into planning dates. He's had several days to figure something out. It's the day of the date and he still doesn't know.
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Ok so he pulled through.

We went for frozen custard. Then we shot some pictures on his DSLR camera (I previously expressed my interest in photography. He taught me some basics and let me play around with the camera.) Then we went to shoot some pool.

I had a good time.
 
Facebook is full of weddings and stuff. Girl from college married the guy she met while abroad... in a friggin CASTLE! A castle in England. Absolutely beautiful fairy tale looking wedding. Fabulous.

Girl from HS celebrated one year with her dh today... sweetest diabetes inducing fb posts ever.
 
so i was talking to a guy on okcupid. he's moving here in august. i deactivated my account b/c i can only take that site in small doses :look: he sent me an email today, so maybe we'll go out once he moves out here. we seem to have things in common/be pretty matched intellectually. he reads. which i've found in TX to apparently be asking too much. :lol:
 
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ok. i just needed a place to vent. i may be overreacting since its close to that TOM, but im soo annoyed. so while visiting a friend 2 weeks ago in PA (i live in the DMV), i met a guy. this guy has been texting me since we met, but he really annoys me. Ive been entertaining him b/c right now, Im going through a dry spell and don't really have any dates. :look:

Strike 1, he texts me to tell me i should call him sometime. i told him, same goes for you, if you would like to speak to me, you should call me. (i thought this was common sense)

Strike 2, he texts me asking me to tell him about myself. i told him thats a conversation that should be held verbally, im not texting that type of conversation. He tells me I have alot of principals and he feels like he's walking on egg shells. :drunk:

strike 3, Saturday he asks me what i'm doing that night. I told him im going to a friends bday dinner. he gives me the :sad: face, saying that he hoped to see me. wtf!! Im confused b/c he never told or asked me. He said, oh i was hoping we could go out tonight. thats something you should ask me prior to the day of.... 3 hours before especially when you live in another state. :nono:

strike 4, im talking to him today, and he asks when am i going to see you again. he tells me he wants to come down and i should plan something for him. DOUBLE WTF! I told him he is the man, and he should make the plans, and let me know. He told me since I live in the area, i should be the one to plan. I was really annoyed by this, b/c lately i've been meeting men that want me to make all the plans and figure out the times and places ect. and I'm sick of it. i mean, tell me movies, bowling, park, something. but im not planning dates, and i dont plan on going back to pa anytime soon either. So, we go back and forth about this, first he says okay thats fine, then he says, well i think you should do it.

At this point, i am fine with him not coming down, b/c im soo annoyed. Okay. end vent. I really think i should just tell him dont bother calling me anymore, b/c i don't think we are compatible. Seriously he is just annoying the hell out of me right now, but again it could be PMS. smh :perplexed: i mean, i feel like im too old to tell a grown man (29 year old man), who has my phone #, to call me, and not text me i should call him sometime. i shouldn't have to tell a grown man, that its ridiculous to have conversations concerning tell me about yourself via text msg.
 
^^ girl he sounds annoying af, honestly. what annoyed me the most was the "what are you doing tonight" is he slow? you dont live there. Wth? I dont like that.

id write him off, but thats just me.

And what *is* up with these guys expecting the girl to plan the ****? god guys are so freaking USELESS nowadays :wallbash:
 
Tamster thank you. i really was wondering if i was being a super b#$ch b/c i can be around this time. but im really sick of men in general. lmao between this idiot and online dating im just :nono: i really think im just going to tell him to not bother calling me anymore.

i didnt mention by day #2 he was calling me baby and last week told me he missed me. :ohwell::perplexed was my face b/c we talked for 10 minutes when we met. you dont know me to miss me. and i asked him why are you calling me baby? he said, oh is it too soon. YES!! the crazy part is that if i was being super nice and actually doing these things he's asking, he probably wouldn't be the least bit interested. smh. :look:
 
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