Dare~to~Dream
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Aw, that's good..sometimes it can be so hard to find a genuine connection with someone and have that feeling returned. I look forward to reading your updates.
2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III
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Aw, that's good..sometimes it can be so hard to find a genuine connection with someone and have that feeling returned. I look forward to reading your updates.
tinkat
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Dare~to~Dream said:
It is hard! It's like now that I really see potential I'm getting nervous bc I am starting to like him. When you are use to throwbacks it makes you wonder if the next one is the same way.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
barbiesocialite
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I wanna hear itI bet you're not thinking anything different from any of us.
naw girl people have memories of elephants on here. I've read all about myself on more than one other site.......
But yea, people already think I'm ignant or harsh and this is the watered down version. I'd prob get banned for expressing my real thoughts
barbiesocialite
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This whole waiting until marriage thing is tough. I need to go into hibernation or something
Am I the only one that finds it easy
That last thing I want to do is ****. I'd rather them get it from somebody, anybody else--i kid i kid. sorta
tinkat
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barbiesocialite said:Am I the only one that finds it easy
That last thing I want to do is ****. I'd rather them get it from somebody, anybody else--i kid i kid. sorta
Its easy sometimes. It doesn't help that I'm horny two weeks prior to cycle and the week after.
Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
twists
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I'm trying man, I'm trying.
Am I the only one that finds it easy
That last thing I want to do is ****. I'd rather them get it from somebody, anybody else--i kid i kid. sorta
barbiesocialite This may be personal but I'm curious. Do you have a SO? I'm just asking because I think I would feel the same way if I didn't have someone here who could...ugh, nevermind.
barbiesocialite
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In my mind do I have a SO, no.
In his mind, yes.
We've been on and off for two years. Never had sex. I'm not putting out any time soon either. And it has nothing to do with him.
twists
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Oh okay, I was just curious. I just need advice on how to deal with this. We've been together for 4 years and it doesn't get easier! I feel like a heathen
barbiesocialite
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Oh okay, I was just curious. I just need advice on how to deal with this. We've been together for 4 years and it doesn't get easier! I feel like a heathen
have you always been abstinent with him or is this an until-the-wedding thing?
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barbiesocialite
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Always
ahh ok. may I ask why? you can pm or not answer at all if I'm being too nosey.....
I'm def not much help, I'm kinda asexual-ish so my approach to sex is quite strategic & deliberate
twists
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ahh ok. may I ask why? you can pm or not answer at all if I'm being too nosey.....
I'm def not much help, I'm kinda asexual-ish so my approach to sex is quite strategic & deliberate
No it's cool. He just wants to wait until marriage to have sex. I think mostly for religious reasons.
twists
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all this abstinence talk! knowing what all the day has in store for me
i could never... which is to say my body would not want to... the hormones have gotten manageable but abstinence, pshaw i sayno ma'am
Stop that!This is hard enough as is lol
InchHighPrivateEye
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This current topic is very relevant right now. I'm on my phone so I don't feel like going into detail but I need to remember to come back to thank posts and share my freaking life
I'm on my phone so I don't feel like going into detail but I need to remember to come back to thank posts and share my freaking life
InchHighPrivateEye
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OT: I'm a huge Michael Jackson fan. So why do I immediately freak out and start wildly pressing escape buttons if I accidentally end up in the Michael Jackson forum. What kind of fan am I? Teach me how to love 
barbiesocialite
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OT: I'm a huge Michael Jackson fan. So why do I immediately freak out and start wildly pressing escape buttons if I accidentally end up in the Michael Jackson forum. What kind of fan am I? Teach me how to love
don't worry, you aren't the only one....
VeryBecoming
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OT: I'm a huge Michael Jackson fan. So why do I immediately freak out and start wildly pressing escape buttons if I accidentally end up in the Michael Jackson forum. What kind of fan am I? Teach me how to love
OMG I thought it was just me. I literally shut down my entire browser if I click that forum accidentally.
Cheekychica
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It's my birthday tomorrow and I'm feeling lonely.
twists
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Cheekychica we'll keep you company! Happy Birthday!!!
CarLiTa
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Brother has been telling us about thirsty women all week. Just left and sister and I are in Paris until this evening. Why did some broad comment on his picture: are your sisters still here?? I can take them to a mall outside the city!! Summer sales yada yada yada.
Thirst. He didn't hang out with you while he was here, doggone it. Fall back.
Thirst. He didn't hang out with you while he was here, doggone it. Fall back.
CarefreeinChicago
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Are there any black men that don't have kids? Ugh
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hung out last night with one of bf's friends and the conversation turned a little sour within an hour or so...
i feel kinda bad that i dont really like many of the people in bf's life i think at some point its going to earn me a side eye.
eta: i complain about his parents/family but i do actually like them. i think they are great people. its just his friends, i feel like he's so non-discriminating that they end up questionable in a lot of ways sometimes... but it doesnt bother him for obvious reasons...
i feel kinda bad that i dont really like many of the people in bf's life
i think at some point its going to earn me a side eye.eta: i complain about his parents/family but i do actually like them. i think they are great people. its just his friends, i feel like he's so non-discriminating that they end up questionable in a lot of ways sometimes... but it doesnt bother him for obvious reasons...
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LovelyLouboutin
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Feeling somewhat offended and not sure if I'm overreacting. Few weeks ago I went with a friend to an nfl players bday party. Talked/met a lot of people. One dude got a little attached I guess, people must not have actual convos with him at the club. After the party he asking what I'm about to do I say 'I don't know I'm gonna see what my friend is doing I think we're going to nflers house'. So this dude was like "wow I didn't think you were that type I'm surprised". Basically insinuating that I'm a groupie. I told him 'why would I go with you when I haven't even known you 2 hours instead of going with my friends'. The day after the party he text me nice meeting you. I went in on him. He said "Yeah, i'm sorry about that...I drank too much last night...just wanted to apologize for that". I didn't reply. I was drunk is not an excuse to me. This morning at 9:30am dude text me "did you go to LeBron's party". I almost went in on him again. So you call me a groupie and then ask me if I went to another bball party?! I felt he was calling me a groupie again.
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