2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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I mean if you say you gonna do something, I need to you do it or atleast tell me why you cant...Everytime I am presented with a weird situation I question this whole dating process..Its so much easier to be by myself because I dont have that option of having someone disappoint me, but its very lonely too..therein lies the dilemma.
 
So a friend of mine who I'm sort of crushing on text me and says:

I greatly enjoy our conversations. Your one of the reasons why I consider myself lucky. I appreciate having good friends.

I responded: Aww thanks!

I feel like I was sposed to say more.

It doesn't help that we're both awkward people. smh.
 
arrrrrgh. why are middle aged men and dudes who are solely interested in me for my body the only people who give me the time of day?

FFFFUUUUKKKKKLEDOOZLESSCHWARTZENFART!

i'm not with it!!!!!!!!OPkjasdlkfjawoier;lkasj dfkajwer
 
youwillrise said:
arrrrrgh. why are middle aged men and dudes who are solely interested in me for my body the only people who give me the time of day?

FFFFUUUUKKKKKLEDOOZLESSCHWARTZENFART!

i'm not with it!!!!!!!!OPkjasdlkfjawoier;lkasj dfkajwer
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I feel u on this

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There is a couple and their child sitting next to me at my neighborhood restaurant. They annoy me, but I look at them and think, someday soon I should be just as annoying. They look older than me. their kid is maybe 2 or 3.

They are discussing the baby's reaction to dad being away on business for two weeks.

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Well I decided to let on ex who turned into a great friend know that its best if we don't be friends since he met someone new. Is that wrong? I'm not mad that he met someone new I am having a hard time with the fact that i can't call him or text him like I used to and we made plans to do stuff this summer and now that's not happening. I just feel like I'm losing him. He became like my best friend

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Rae81 said:
Well I decided to let on ex who turned into a great friend know that its best if we don't be friends since he met someone new. Is that wrong? I'm not mad that he met someone new I am having a hard time with the fact that i can't call him or text him like I used to and we made plans to do stuff this summer and now that's not happening. I just feel like I'm losing him. He became like my best friend

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I don't think it's wrong. You're doing the best to protect your own feelings. These situations are so sticky. It's like it doesn't matter how genuine you two are, intimacy of any sort has now become inappropriate. :bighug:

Maybe once you find your SO things will balance out again.
 
My 6 year old and his 8 year old are already inseparable. We have spent the last two days just laughing at them and enjoying them as well as each other. They carry on like they came from the same womb-hugging, kissing, fighting, fussing, whining, laughing, etc. :look:

Our only problem is we are having trouble even attempting to sneak in an ounce of intimate time. :look: And it does not help that my son is a mama's boy and his daughter is a daddy's girl, so they watch us like hawks! :grin: He had a few ideas on how to solve the problem, but I had to say ummm...nope we cannot do that to our babies! :lol:
 
I think the adult decision would be for us to split, but I dont wanna do it while SO is already having such a hard time. sigh.... I hate being a grown up sometimes
 
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He leaves for the UK tomorrow :cry: I'll see him in a couple weeks though.

I understand him, I really do. But he still can still send me into an emotional tailspin based on his silence.
 
went on a date with my crush last night. so we ended up going to dinner last night (instead of a dessert date). i went to an event with my friends beforehand and was supposed to eat there but didn't really. lol. we went out for dinner & went to the pool. (i really like his body and was DEF using the pool as an excuse to see more of it. :blush:)

it was fun. he is super hot, but also adorable/sweet. :lol: i'm glad i gave him a second chance and try to explain why something bugs me (i fully acknowledge that most men think i'm such a WIERDO--which he more or less told me :look: in a nice way of course). there are def some things that may be cultural differences or just us being on a different page, but for now, i'm happy :yep:
 
The weekend is starting out great already. I am so grateful to have every other Friday off. We had a mini celebration dinner in the early evening and checked out a great live jazz set. We are going to Blues & Comedy show and Sharon's birthday party tonight.

I just got a text from my mechanic. He wants to know a good time to pickup the beetle to replace the leaking radiator and do routine maintenance per my guys instruction. Thanks dude cuz I hate driving the gas guzzling slowbutt jeep for one day let alone a whole damn week. I don't care if I'm not paying or pumping the gas it sucks plus it causes me shoulder and neck pain. I cannot wait to replace it with a Commander!

Next weekend I have obligatory girlfriend duties aka attend his family & friends events. Not really looking forward to it but at least one event is at the beach.

Gotta get stuff ready for the grill, polish my nails and finally wash these few dishes.
 
Every time I mention Paris everyone is like "OMG you're getting engaged!" I'm like dudes, relax yourselves...y'all are going to be real disappointed when the only thing I come back with is some croissants.
 
Spent the night over his place. We didn't go to sleep til like 5am lol. But we had an AWESOME time :lick: Now I'm in the living room, waiting for him to get the f*** up and cook breakfast. I'm about to go wake his a** up...
 
I need some time off lhcf. I have recently done 29 hours. Let us now try 48. I fear I might be single by then because this fool is being an ******* and I seriously can NOT be ****ed. *throws ring in his face*

Why do men not understand that they are not the center of the universe.
 
We talked all night. We both fell asleep on skype. He asked if I wanted him to come all the way down to al. Of course I do :).

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
tinkat said:
We talked all night. We both fell asleep on skype. He asked if I wanted him to come all the way down to al. Of course I do :).

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
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So glad you're communicating with someone. :yep: Where does he live?
 
deltadreamland said:
So glad you're communicating with someone. :yep: Where does he live?
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Aw thanks! I am glad too. He lives in Norfolk va

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
hopeful

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate it. This is the first time in a long time that I genuinely connected with someone and know that the feeling is mutual. It's still really early but I have a good feeling about him. Even if nothing happens I am glad to have encountered him bc I have learned a lot from him already.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
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