2012 Relationship Random Thoughts.... Part III

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Watched Just Wright again. Now I fee like watching Brown Sugar but it'll only make me more emotional. :cry2: When is my prince going to roll up at a gas station at a maybach or pop up like "even though you're my best friend, I'm in love with you!"
 
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Watched Just Wright again. Now I fee like watching Brown Sugar but it'll only make me more emotional. :cry2: When is my prince going to roll up at a gas station at a maybach or pop up like "even though you're my best friend, I'm in love with you!"
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I use to watch that movie every day.

Wait, be positive, keep believing, and all will surely be yours. Sent from my iPhone using LHCF
 
:( My SO cheated on me with a friend of his that he works with. They started out as friends and the line was crossed.... how do I distance myself from my SO? I have been with him for 5 years, he is my best friend, our families love each other, I would have never guessed he would have done this to me. I am so hurt and angry, however, I do still love him. But for us to ever possibly be able to get over this, I feel like I need to break away for a while. I need to focus on myself and he needs to figure out somethings as well. Why is it so hard to not call or not respond to his text messages? I just wish I was so ANGRY that I could just ignore him completely.
 
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Would you date a man who you did not find physically attractive? I'm doubting it but I feel as if I'm not in a position to be picky since I haven't had any viable prospects in a loooong time :ohwell:
 
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bosswitch said:
Would you date a man who you did not find attractive in any way? I'm doubting it but I feel as if I'm not in a position to be picky since I haven't had any viable prospects in a loooong time :ohwell:
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I wouldn't, I'm too visual and it will be hard for me to be turned on or have to fake like I have interest and I'm very expressive with my face so I wouldn't be able to hide my disgusted face lol
 
Gemini350z said:
:( My SO cheated on me with a friend of his that he works with. They started out as friends and the line was crossed.... how do I distance myself from my SO? I have been with him for 5 years, he is my best friend, our families love each other, I would have never guessed he would have done this to me. I am so hurt and angry, however, I do still love him. But for us to ever possibly be able to get over this, I feel like I need to break away for a while. I need to focus on myself and he needs to figure out somethings as well. Why is it so hard to not call or not respond to his text messages? I just wish I was so ANGRY that I could just ignore him completely.
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Do you live together?

Have you tried asking him to leave you alone (not text, call, visit etc..)
 
I've decided to block MG out of my life for good. That situation with them is bad for my mental health. Blocking facebook, twitter, telling them not to bother contacting me. I don't care the consequences. I deserve more than they will ever be.

On to the next one.
 
Last year over the summer, I wrote a post about my niece's uncle (my sister's ex-husband's brother) coming to a party and stating he was going to marry me. Well, I brushed it off as he was flirting with me and really didn't give it a second thought. Well, we have been talking for the past week and he is 100% serious. He is relocating from New York in Atlanta by June 15 and intends on making this goal a reality.

I was a little taken back by his honesty and sincerity towards me and it took a minute to really wrap my head around the fact his feelings were so strong. I have known him since I was 12, always thought he was attractive and we would speak and be cordial at family functions. But he tells me that he had a crush on me for a long time and thought I was much younger than him. I always thought he was much older than myself and it turns out he is only 4 years older than me.

It is so wild that my family and his mother are really happy to see this budding relationship.

I know that it is a little to early to tell and my feelings are not as deep as his yet. But I know this man will spend the rest of his life trying to make me happy and that warms my heart.
 
WTF?!?? Why would you call out my name (gov't name - not any of my aliases) across the store to tell me some ish you could have sent in a text? I know why. Because I'm not talking to you anymore.

This stuff happens in real life. smh
 
The girl I'm dating now, best friend is dating the fool I talked about cutting off last night. This is gonna be fun lmao
 
Never thought I would enjoy a night of cuddling and anime. Sure, I fell asleep a few times and would wake up pretending to know what the *** was going on but it was still nice. :look:
 
I'm singing like Delilah from the Little Rascal's "I'm in the mood for love" simply because you are near me, funny but when you are near me, I'm in the mood for love.
Don't put yo hand on me sucka I'm just sangin a song!!!!!!!! LOL
 
I'm not good with having little to nothing to do. This leaves time for me to miss him and think about potential issues in our relationship :nono: Today, I freaked out and sent him a text saying we should talk about something. My friend freaked me out and my hasty self texted him shortly thereafter. Then I took it back :ohwell: since my mom said that was a conversation to have in person. He said he would call and it's the first time I'm hoping he doesn't. :lachen:

Looking forward to when I'm away, interning and he's studying for the bar. We will BOTH be busy.
 
I hope I don't ever become jaded. I like having a lighthearted POV when it comes to men. But I do kind of wonder if I can continue to be like this as I get older...
 
Nevermind................................................................................
 
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You know you're in trouble when your called by your name in conversation....
Any other time it's always babe, baby, sweetheart, honey etc. But when I hear my name, I know it's not good, you're upset.:nono: BUT not too upset, you still wanted to have a date nite :sandm: to punish me :look:
 
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You don't have to question yourself when it is right. If you are not sure, you may want to hold off for a while.
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idk. i think any situation could benefit from some good healthy, honest examination.
 
A white hippie in a ponytail, sarong and sneakers told me he wants to marry me. This was while we were waiting in the line to get into a nightclub. Friend and I hightailed in there and tried to avoid him and his friend all night. At the end of the night, it looked like he'd found another black ladyfriend. Wins all around.
 
Age old question..why do the ones I like disappear while the ones I don't care for stick to me like glue?
 
So... I don't want the one that I wanted anymore! He ain't on ish!

The one I wasn't sure about is really turning out to be a nice guy. He's funny, very talkative, he likes to do different things and he's just as smart mouthed as I am! His looks are just ok though. My bff kinda checked me on that... I want Mr. Fine but Mr Fine aint always Mr. Right... In my case Mr. fine has never been Mr Right. But the guy is still attractive though. I will try not to allow my shallowness to get in the way!
 
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