preciouslove0x
Well-Known Member
I know there are an infinite amount of threads about this but I wanted to start a new one anyway....
Today I just realized that I desire not to have any kids. All of my life I dreamed of the house with a white picket fence, loving husband and wonderful 2.5 kids. You know... the American dream.... I am in my early 20s and today for the first time I really thought about the idea of having kids... like the whole sha-bang... raising them for birth to 18... and the idea just does not seem appealing to me..... As a little girl up through high school i wanted a LARGE (5-7 kids) family. But as a young adult I no longer see this as desirable... It's just so... strange... that I now see my future self the happiest without children.... For some reason I think not wanting to have kids is kinda selfish... Maybe I'll change my mind about not wanting to have them after I get married??? This is just a thought I wanted to write out. I just told my friend this a moment ago and she thinks I've lost my mind since just a few months ago we were talking about where we saw ourselves in 10 years (5+ kids and all). And just a few months ago I was seriously side-eyeing ladies who didn't want children on this very forum.
Life is such an interesting ride.
Today I just realized that I desire not to have any kids. All of my life I dreamed of the house with a white picket fence, loving husband and wonderful 2.5 kids. You know... the American dream.... I am in my early 20s and today for the first time I really thought about the idea of having kids... like the whole sha-bang... raising them for birth to 18... and the idea just does not seem appealing to me..... As a little girl up through high school i wanted a LARGE (5-7 kids) family. But as a young adult I no longer see this as desirable... It's just so... strange... that I now see my future self the happiest without children.... For some reason I think not wanting to have kids is kinda selfish... Maybe I'll change my mind about not wanting to have them after I get married??? This is just a thought I wanted to write out. I just told my friend this a moment ago and she thinks I've lost my mind since just a few months ago we were talking about where we saw ourselves in 10 years (5+ kids and all). And just a few months ago I was seriously side-eyeing ladies who didn't want children on this very forum.
Life is such an interesting ride.