sky_blu
Well-Known Member
I just want to say that every guy with kids does not automatically mean BM drama or drama period. I've been on both sides of the fence and I guess because I've come from a mixed family its never been a big issue for me. But before I had a kid I dated a guy with one kid and found out I actually liked and was good with kids lol. The guy liked me more than his dad. I didn't have drama with his mother and his dad knew I wouldn't treat him like anything less than he would. The second guy I was seeing had 3 with 2 BMs :shock: at 26 and I didn't have any drama with him either. He dealt with drama from his 2nd BM but that was his fault. I was taken aback when I found out he had so many so I wasn't trying to deal with him like that but he was such a good person it didn't matter after awhile. Now Im talking to a guy whose 24 with no kids and he made sure to emphasis that when I started talking to him lol. Either way it doesn't make a difference with me but I would never do a guy with 3 kids and 2 babymothers. I can take being #2 bc he would be my #2 if I had more kids but #3. I can't do.