Wwyd - Husband Shows Up With Scratches On His Face And Body

[naturalmanenyc]

Your husband of 25 years doesn't come home all night and when he finally does show up at 1 pm he has scratches on his face and body. This isn't the first time he's stayed out all night and this isn't the first time you've suspected he was cheating. You learned about his outside child a year ago. That child is grown. Your child together is grown and moved out.

Would you want (or need) any confirmation from people who were out with your husband the night prior?

 

[MzLady78]

What is with these crazy a** threads?

 

[janaq2003]

Nope. No confirmation needed. Everything already visible. I will just a good divorce atty and some D-con soup for hubster.

 

[lux10023]

25 yrs...good amount of assets to walk away with half....
in this scenario there is just a tad bit to much trfilin goin on......

and furthermore i dont understand a husband that wouldnt make it home at night, this does not compute....to much triflin in one scenario...chileeee

 

[lesedi]

First things first: put laxatives in his drinks

Start transferring money out of joint accounts into your personal account

Have an STD test

Leave.

 

[TayMac]

No confirmation needed.

 

[KimPossibli]

is he schizophrenic?

 

[naturalmanenyc]

is he schizophrenic?

No, but he's a totally different person when his wife isn't around.

 

[Lucie]

Nope. No confirmation needed. Everything already visible. I will just a good divorce atty and some D-con soup for hubster.

I ugly laughed at D-Con like that white pirate .gif I keep seeing around here.

 

[Topsido]

I'm getting serial rapist flashing in my mind. Time to get a PI on this.

 

[Nyssa28]

I'm getting serial rapist flashing in my mind. Time to get a PI on this.

Right! The scratches on the face has me really puzzled.

 

[Atthatday]

Transfer the assets, file for divorce, waitfor him to go to bed and do a Madea move with hot grease.

 

[naturalmanenyc]

I'm getting serial rapist flashing in my mind. Time to get a PI on this.

Based on the young girl that was with him the night prior, it was her scratching him up.

 

[ladysaraii]

I'm assuming that the only reason I'm still here is b/c I'm stacking my money and preparing to make my moves, so...nothing? Maybe speed up efforts?

 

[Ms. Tarabotti]

Leave with a small suitcase. I already transferred the money and assets to my name, hired the private investigators to track down hidden assets and the dirt on what my soon to be ex husband, rented my new apartment and filed for divorce.
He'll be served with the papers while he's treating his scratches. No further confirmation is needed.

 

[Nyssa28]

Based on the young girl that was with him the night prior, it was her scratching him up.

So did she fight him or are those love wounds?

 

[naturalmanenyc]

So did she fight him or are those love wounds?

My guess is there was no fighting. His wife is meek and likely not willing to participate, so he found it elsewhere.

 

[onyxdreams]

Honestly, my opinion is she should have left when she found out about the secret child,let alone now with scratches.

 

[Foxglove]

So the wife knows about the outside kid aka she already knows he's cheated? Why is she surprised if he did it before and she stayed with him?

 

[WhoIAm]

That same night, I may give him some more scratches and a black eye to match. There will definitely be some furniture moving up in there.

If I decide to stay with him, life won't be very pleasant for him. He'd have to sleep with one eye open for a while.

 

[chocolat79]

At that point, I wouldn't even get mad. I'd be getting my affairs in order. By 1pm, I would've already been apt hunting or securing a place to stay for a few months till I can get on my feet and lining up the most vicious divorce lawyer I could find. I'd even lay out some bandages and neosporin for him because I'd be so unbothered. One day when he came home, everything I wanted would be gone. All correspondence would be through the lawyer from that point on.

 

[CurlyMoo]

Are you sure he isn't a serial killer?
Get your gat, before you get got.

 

[PeaceFlow]

At that point, I wouldn't even get mad. I'd be getting my affairs in order. By 1pm, I would've already been apt hunting or securing a place to stay for a few months till I can get on my feet and lining up the most vicious divorce lawyer I could find. I'd even lay out some bandages and neosporin for him because I'd be so unbothered. One day when he came home, everything I wanted would be gone. All correspondence would be through the lawyer from that point on.

lolol

 

[naturalmanenyc]

Are you sure he isn't a serial killer?
Get your gat, before you get got.

He's a serial cheater.

 

[JerriBlank]

Lolll

 

[Theresamonet]

I guess since I already know he's cheating and has outside children, I'd pretend I didn't notice the stratches and carry on. Why even be bothered with the drama, if I'm not going anywhere.

 

[KidneyBean86]

Your friend is a good one. I would have the divorce papers filled out and all the money from the joint account moved to my personal account before he showed up that afternoon.

I don't do well with cheaters.

 

[naturalmanenyc]

Your friend is a good one. I would have the divorce papers filled out and all the money from the joint account moved to my personal account before he showed up that afternoon.

I don't do well with cheaters.

No, not my friend at all. We know the guy.

 

[GeorginaSparks]

oh ok.

 

[ElizaBlue]

Do nothing. Clearly this has been a way of life.