*~*Afrolicious*~*
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What do you mean he would marry her in an instant?
I think knowing a person and being in a relationship with them are two different things, and stuff that you feel like are minor in nature may not be for her, and you have to respect her perspective. You seem a wee bit biased in favor of this guy too, maybe since you're friends with him? Ultimately she is the one who would have to be with him, and she is the one who needs to be comfortable with his flaws and all.
THIS. My ex on the outside was all those positive qualities you listed. To the outside world he was sweet charming and and all around "textbook nice guy." With me he was an emotional/verbal abuser; a straight textbook narcissist/sociopath.