Would you want to know all of the details...

[1Aleeesha]

If(big if) I forgave someone for cheating on me...The details mentioned matter just not as much as the bottom line that he CHOOSE to cheat. One needs to be careful to not receive the details as something they were lacking or any sort of thing that shifts the blame to the cheated on from the cheated. Know what I mean? Him cheating is the bottom line because there is always an excuse someone can label a reason when choosing to do something wrong. Sometimes when ppl do something wrong they believe explaining the "why" justifies it, and it really doesn't.

I know it sure doesn't define jack... I would just like to know what it is that made him think risking losing his wife and kids over was just so worth the fun. Although I seriously doubt I'd be staying... SMDH it's no longer my wood anymore - I'm gone.

 

[janaq2003]

no- the fact that you plan to save the relationship indicates the need to let sleeping dogs lie (no pun intended)