pisceschica
Well-Known Member
NO and the biggest reason is that I would be thinking about his physical deterioraton in the long run. If i'm say 40 and he's 60 I would expect him to start having some health problems (and some ED problems ) that may take a toll on our relationship. I don't want to literally be a nurse to my own husband I don't want to have to run to wal-mart to pick up your $4 prescriptions
I also want someone to grow with. I don't think you can share too many experience new to you both if your s/o is that much older than you. That is 2 full decades. Each decade with its own "personality." Everyone who grew up in the 70's remembers things from that era everyone that grew up in late 80's early 90's remembhers the things that were big in that era. I can't imgaine that I would know or understand from someone that grew up in the 70's while I grew up in the 90's.
I'm all for finding love wherever you can find it but that age gap is just too much.
I also want someone to grow with. I don't think you can share too many experience new to you both if your s/o is that much older than you. That is 2 full decades. Each decade with its own "personality." Everyone who grew up in the 70's remembers things from that era everyone that grew up in late 80's early 90's remembhers the things that were big in that era. I can't imgaine that I would know or understand from someone that grew up in the 70's while I grew up in the 90's.
I'm all for finding love wherever you can find it but that age gap is just too much.