Mejayt
New Member
Background: The guy I have been dating was in a serious relationship with a young lady that was killed in a car accident about two years ago. It was a very traumatic experience for him and he has just really started dating again.
Now:
I have been dating this guy for five months and am really into him. During the first few months, we spent a lot of time together and found that we have a lot of things in common. He then started graduate school and I was seeing less of him and then I wasn't seeing him at all. When we would talk he would tell me that he was busy with work and school and that we would get together. Although he was so busy with work and school he made time every weekend to go out with his friends. I tried to be patient with him and not trip about it but I feel like he doesn't care to spend time with me. I really like the guy a whole lot but I feel like he is holding back from me maybe because he is scared or not quite ready to move on. I have talked to him about it but he tells me that nothing is wrong and that we are okay but I am not okay. I want desperately to be with him but I can't seem to reach him. I want to walk away but something keeps tugging me back. He tells me that he really cares for me and wants to be with me but acts distant. I talked to his brother about it and he told me that he talks about me a lot and that he really does like me but he has a hard time expressing his feelings.
What would you ladies do in this situation or have any of you experienced a similar situation?
Now:
I have been dating this guy for five months and am really into him. During the first few months, we spent a lot of time together and found that we have a lot of things in common. He then started graduate school and I was seeing less of him and then I wasn't seeing him at all. When we would talk he would tell me that he was busy with work and school and that we would get together. Although he was so busy with work and school he made time every weekend to go out with his friends. I tried to be patient with him and not trip about it but I feel like he doesn't care to spend time with me. I really like the guy a whole lot but I feel like he is holding back from me maybe because he is scared or not quite ready to move on. I have talked to him about it but he tells me that nothing is wrong and that we are okay but I am not okay. I want desperately to be with him but I can't seem to reach him. I want to walk away but something keeps tugging me back. He tells me that he really cares for me and wants to be with me but acts distant. I talked to his brother about it and he told me that he talks about me a lot and that he really does like me but he has a hard time expressing his feelings.
What would you ladies do in this situation or have any of you experienced a similar situation?