What is your greatest Hair Fear???

I fear that in the next few months I will be reaching for Mizani Butter Blends Relaxer! I have to learn Patience & Acceptance so that Fear Never comes True!
 
My fear is not being able to get rid of my mullet. I went natural cuz I wanted to do wash n go's but little did I know a MULLET would kill my plans. I've been patient but Sept will be year 3 and I'm still waiting.

My other fear is getting into a hair flip battle and breaking my neck. Oh wait that's a commercial LOL

Last fear - someone coming up behind me and cutting my hair :giggle:
 
Flat ironing chasing that silky look and at the next wash, have bone straight strands that can't revert.

*SSSSSSSSSSSSSCREEEEEEEEEEAM*
 
I fear having my favorite hair products be discontinued or a formula change. Well this has already happened to two of my staples, so i pray no more.
 
I share the same fear: getting nowhere with my hair journey. I just see so many people around me with the same length for years and I don't want to be like; I'm trying my best to have healthy, long hair, they aren't doing anything to promote growth and we're both getting nowhere?

But I'm trying not to let that happen my following the most important principles, getting to know my hair better and not neglecting it, and checking this site almost every single day for pointers and inspiration. :yep:
 
Going grey.

Then I'll have to dye my hair and dyed hair almost never looks as good as natural color and it's almost impossible to get it to shine...I just do not want to have to dye my hair and deal with grey roots every 3 or 4 weeks.
 
Overprocessing leading to severe breakage...I started my HHJ because of just such a situation a few years ago. I'm talking too short to flat-iron breakage! So now I'm careful with everything...especially heat.
 
My greatest fear is that I will renege on my plan when the time comes - to cut my hair in a neck-length blunt bob once I have gotten it in a super, duper healthy state.
 
My greatest fear is that someone sneaks a relaxer on my hair and tells me it's something else.

After seven years natural (one year transitioning) I would have to do some serious prison time after that.
 
That I will loose it one day, have a lapse of sanity and think that my hair can take a dye job.

That I will be stuck at this length forever...it seems like my hair hasn't budged since October and I am worried.
 
My hair splitting from the ends allllllll the way up to the scalp, for every individual hair strand, at the same time!!!!! *gets goose bumps* scary!!!
 
My greatest fear is that My terminal length may not be long enough.

I can fix thin, damaged hair ...but you cannot 'fix' your terminal length.
 
My greatest fear is reaching my goal (MBL) and then having a horrible setback taking me back to where I began (CBL) and having to start all over. Ugh I never wanna start over! I think I would die! lol
 
1. That I get to my desired length and then do "something" to mess it up...This happened to me about 8 years ago. I had reached APL and I decided to put it in a PS- microbraids :rolleyes: Yeah, I didn't get the memo that microbraids was NOT a PS...I kept my hair in braids for 1 week, tried to wash it (I was told to put my braids in 4 big plaits), it got matted and I had to get the braids CUT out of my hair. So...within two weeks, I went from APL to a little below NL

To thwart that: I have realized that (for me) braids are not a PS...I have tried a couple braid styles and short of me wearing my hair in corn rows without extensions, I do not retain length...So, NO BRAIDS FOR ME:nono:

2. I started graying when I was 19 years old, so for me, dyeing my hair is not so much an option, but more of a necessity...My other hair fear is that I will get to my ultimate hair goal (HL) much, much slower because I constantly have to fix what the dye has messed up.

To thwart that: I'm still trying to figure out what to do with this issue...Ladies, I am definitely open to opinions...actually, maybe I should start my own thread instead of hijacking this one :look: Sorry!!!
 
I get those nightmares with night sweats of a stylist cutting my hair from BSL to SL when I requested a trim or small dusting. This is probably why I'm scared to get a professional trimming.
 
1) Excessive shedding to make a noticeable difference in fullness

2) Going to get texlaxed after a 23 wk stretch to be told by my stylist that I need to get most of my progress cut off due to raggedy ends
 
That my hair will suffer from significant breakage, I'm talking w- shaped, see through ends....all of that, and I'll have to cut it to ear length or above just to save it...and have to start all over on my hair journey. I'm currently thick, SL relaxed. I shiver at the thought. I've learned too much and come to far and I don't want to ever look back---> just want to move forward!
 
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