We have a thread regarding dark-skinned children. Some, in fact, many of the posts in this thread acknowledge that it may be common for women to choose partners based on skin color. We have another thread started by a woman who expresses a preference for light-skinned children. We have other threads that address the marriage rates of black women and lament the dearth of good black men. We have threads that say we should embrace IR dating because there are no good black men. I acknowledge that many, many black men are in jail, on drugs, unsuitable partners for one reason or another but I have to wonder how many are dismissed for reasons like:
color
he drives a bus
he doesn't want to pay my bills
I don't like the way he dresses
he doesn't club
he doesn't have the Smirk
he treats me too well
he insists on fidelity
he wants the house clean
I am not advocating that any woman settle for any man just to have a man. I do wonder if our criteria for our mates is based on a rational construct.
color
he drives a bus
he doesn't want to pay my bills
I don't like the way he dresses
he doesn't club
he doesn't have the Smirk
he treats me too well
he insists on fidelity
he wants the house clean
I am not advocating that any woman settle for any man just to have a man. I do wonder if our criteria for our mates is based on a rational construct.
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