Were you ever someone's mistress?

[NOEChic]

I have no relationship with her. Never have never will. Yes. I would go to some stranger on lhcf before I would her. If I can question and trust them about hair or health, why not this?

As I was saying.....

*sits to watch thread*

In your post, you said you need to know why SHE went after your dad and stayed. Well I can't tell you why SHE went after him. You need to ask her because only she can tell you what she wanted from or saw in your dad to make her do what she did. I could tell you my story all day everyday, but it still won't give you the understanding of what she did and why she did it.

 

[ivyness]

In your post, you said you need to know why SHE went after your dad and stayed. Well I can't tell you why SHE went after him. You need to ask her because only she can tell you what she wanted from or saw in your dad to make her do what she did. I could tell you my story all day everyday, but it still won't give you the understanding of what she did and why she did it.

Ok. Apologies if i was not clear enough. Let me clarify this for you(and anyone else to whom it was unclear). Why would ANY woman go after a married man? If this applies to YOU, either answer the question as it applies to YOU, or take a seat.

 

[NOEChic]

Ok. Apologies if i was not clear enough. Let me clarify this for you(and anyone else to whom it was unclear). Why would ANY woman go after a married man? If this applies to YOU, either answer the question as it applies to YOU, or take a seat.

I'll continue to stand and keep my story to myself

 

[ivyness]

I'll continue to stand and keep my story to myself

You do that.

 

[Ganjababy]

I know someone whose best friend slept with her husband for years. He eventually left her (the wife) for someone younger and hotter. After he left the wife, the best friend admitted to the wife that she used to sleep with the husband. The wife told the best friend that she knew for years. Her maids told her and her other friends told her. Everyone even thought the mistresses youngest child was the husbands.

They are still friends. The wife even partly paid for one of the mistresses kids college tuition.

I never understood why she stayed with him until he left her. He was a useless piece of dung. They had money and after he left everyone realised she was the brain behind the business. He is now a bum and her career and business soared after they divorved. she is a millionaire business woman. His second younger wife left him after having several kids with him and after she realised he was penniless. He is now living with a man.


I don't know what they saw in him. He looks soooooo decrepit.

 

[TopShelf]

Then you need to ask her. Everyone's story is different and no one is going to come on here and say I chased after a married man. These memories are long on here and they will let you know it.

sad but true.......I can't remeber half of yesterday but chics on this board remember '89 and they come with links and all..lmfaooo

 

[Boujoichic]

I ran into a guy who used to be an Aide at my high school so he was quite a bit older than me. We exchanged contact info and went out on a few dates and we kissed. I thought things were going well between us. Then one day we were talking on the phone and something that he said made me pause I can't even remember what it was exactly but I asked him hold on are you married? And he goes "Yeah didn't you know". WTF!

I never spoke to him again and I learned to never assume a man is single I always ask now. Dude never wore a ring and would be out all hours of the night at lounges, clubs, and movies with me. I wonder what he was telling his wife he was out with the boys?

 

[PeaceFlow]

Ok. Apologies if i was not clear enough. Let me clarify this for you(and anyone else to whom it was unclear). Why would ANY woman go after a married man? If this applies to YOU, either answer the question as it applies to YOU, or take a seat.

1. Challenge
2. Excitement
3. A relationship without emotional drama (for the more independent, high self esteem types)
4. Great sex that always feels intense/forbidden
5. Ego boost (for those with low self esteem)

 

[vevster]

1. Challenge
2. Excitement
3. A relationship without emotional drama (for the more independent, high self esteem types)
4. Great sex that always feels intense/forbidden
5. Ego boost (for those with low self esteem)

Sometimes they lie and by the time u find out he is married you are caught up emotionally and can't immediately break ties. Especially if he is fulfilling needs(not just sexual) really well.