shortycocoa said:I know, right???? ^^^^^^^me too....
snillohsss said:I was actually just about to ask that. Plenty of women I know who are close to 40 don't attract married men.
diadall said:Maybe instead of making them up we can tell you of encounters with married men who you caught.
In 2004, I met this guy. He was a business man in town. I didn't know anything about him but he was in an association that had a bill up. I was a deputy press secretary for a political office.
He would take me and some legisltive aides out to dinner after session and one night he made it clear he was intersted in me. So we went out...in our small town mind you about five times.
After session a few friends and I took a trip and he and a few of his friends met us.
We had kissed but no sex. He took all of us to dinner.
My friends know me VERY WELL. They know I would not be with a married man.
At dinner my friend, Marlo who is about 7 years older than me and his age flat out in front of everyone (six of us), "so where does your wife think you are this weekend?"
I gave her that Beyonce look someone has in a gif with Farrah.
But what shocked me...what shocked me I tell you is that he said, "she don't need to know all that."
Anyway, the next man I dated I flat out asked, "are you married, do you have a girlfriend."
He was like, "No! Why would I ask you out if I was married or had a girlfriend?"
Its a catch 22. You want to ask to protect yourself but a good potential thinks you insulted him.
diadall said:What does that mean?
Were you ever someone's mistress?
I wonder where someone would get the idea that men stop flirting when they get married or don't flirt with women over forty. Flirty men flirt with women they find attractive. I've seen married men flirt with my mother and she's eighty-one.
It didn't make sense to me, either. A lot of bw don't look their age anyway, so how would a man always know a woman's age? But some folks know everything about everything.
I was actually just about to ask that. Plenty of women I know who are close to 40 don't attract married men.
This thread could have been enlightening. :/ I wanna hear about the women who knowingly entered a relationship with a married and try to see things from their perspective. I don't agree with it, but I would still like to understand. That thread would have been great on The Dark Side of the Board.
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ivyness said:Me too. My stepmother(spit and do the sign of the cross) went after my father and after my mom left got him. was pregnant within 3 months of mom leaving. She stayed with him through him telling her and showing her it was my mom he loved. She is only GETTING it now after he has passed away and she is finding out that MY mother was and is still no 1 in his eyes. I need to understand where she is coming from going after and staying with someone who was with someone else cos right now, I just can't.
NOEChic said:Then you need to ask her. Everyone's story is different and no one is going to come on here and say I chased after a married man. These memories are long on here and they will let you know it.
ivyness said:I've read this thread. At least ONE member has come in here and done just that. If they choose to go into details, more power to them. With the number of fonts willing to pay an extra 6.50 to have a say, I wouldn't be surprised.
And NO I will not be asking her.
NOEChic said:Then if you arent going to ask her, someone you have a relationship with, how are you going to impress upon some stranger to open their mouth,