The Official Sexy and Single Thread
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SqrpioQutie
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*proppin MzLady up*
stay STRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG sistagurl... turn them emotions off like a faucet...
MzLady78
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*proppin MzLady up*
stay STRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG sistagurl... turn them emotions off like a faucet...
I'm trying, man, LOL.
I totally set myself up for this.
And I don't even think it's about the person in particular, I think it's just the way I feel when I'm with that person.
I don't know what I'm doing anymore.
SqrpioQutie
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I'm trying, man, LOL.
I totally set myself up for this.
And I don't even think it's about the person in particular, I think it's just the way I feel when I'm with that person.
I don't know what I'm doing anymore.
ooohhhhhhhhhhh been there... recently....
u gotta take back the power... for me, i had to hook myself up with a guy who so TOTALLY turned me off of relationships that i can now date a guy with the whole "take it slow/just friends and whatever happens happens" approach... i was on a mission since i'm now officially, the only single chick left in my clique so i ended up putting emotions on stuff that didn't deserve it... NOW, since the last guy totally made me relish being single, i can do it like it should be done and keep myself in check without feeling like i'm missing out on something...
soooooooooooooooooooo what you could do is go out, find a bug-a-boo, let him take you out and fall madly in love with (aka bug the crap out of you) and then you can put everything back into perspective and take the reigns again... make u feel like u'll never want to be anything BUT single... lol
MzLady78
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LMAO!
Great idea!
I thought the fact that this guy is absolutely not relationship material at this point would be enough to keep me from getting caught up.
I don't know what happened.
(maybe it's that SUV he's driving, LMAO!!!)
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WhipEffectz1
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LMAO!
Great idea!
I thought the fact that this guy is absolutely not relationship material at this point would be enough to keep me from getting caught up.
I don't know what happened.
(maybe it's that SUV he's driving, LMAO!!!)
Don't go Hollywood on us!!!!
MzLady78
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Don't go Hollywood on us!!!!
LOL!!!
I'll be alright.
Ain't nothing meeting some out of state cuties can't fix!!!
WhipEffectz1
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MzLady78
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Ahhhhhhhhh yes!!! Let me quit!!!
Umm, yeah. Let you.
Leave the mens for us single ladies, LOL.
caltron
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LMAO!
Great idea!
I thought the fact that this guy is absolutely not relationship material at this point would be enough to keep me from getting caught up.
I don't know what happened.
(maybe it's that SUV he's driving, LMAO!!!)
LOL. I think that probably has a little something to do with it. I hope you can get out of this before you are too far gone down that path emotionally. There are other, bigger SUV's in the world and probably very skilled drivers.
MzLady78
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Well, damn. I wrote it in white for a reason, LOL.
Naw- I don't think it's that bad. Just a little more than I was expecting.
Just gotta fall back some, that's all.
Determined22
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So I know this guy, and he's said to me that he likes me. I didn't believe him, and I told him to show me that he likes me.
Well, he called my bluff and sent me these beautiful flowers at work:
How freakin sweet is that!
He gained a bunch of points with that one, I'm a sucker for flowers....
Well, he called my bluff and sent me these beautiful flowers at work:
How freakin sweet is that!
He gained a bunch of points with that one, I'm a sucker for flowers....
MzLady78
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So I know this guy, and he's said to me that he likes me. I didn't believe him, and I told him to show me that he likes me.
Well, he called my bluff and sent me these beautiful flowers at work:
How freakin sweet is that!
He gained a bunch of points with that one, I'm a sucker for flowers....
Awww, they're beautiful!!!!!
So, what'cha gonna do now?
Determined22
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MzLady78
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I guess I'm gonna have to give him a chance!
Sound like a good plan to me!
Make sure you keep us updated. You know how we love details aroulnd here.
MissJ
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You go girl!So I know this guy, and he's said to me that he likes me. I didn't believe him, and I told him to show me that he likes me.
Well, he called my bluff and sent me these beautiful flowers at work:
How freakin sweet is that!
He gained a bunch of points with that one, I'm a sucker for flowers....
CurliDiva
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I met this guy and gave him my cell number about 2 weeks ago.
Isn't it weird that he has only "text" me rather than calling? Call me old fashion, but texting is not for the initial "so what do you like to do, let go out" stage.
He seemed nice, but I don't intend to plan a date over a tiny screen!
Isn't it weird that he has only "text" me rather than calling? Call me old fashion, but texting is not for the initial "so what do you like to do, let go out" stage.
He seemed nice, but I don't intend to plan a date over a tiny screen!
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MzLady78
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I met this guy and gave him my cell number about 2 weeks ago.
Isn't it weird that he has only "text" me rather than calling? Call me old fashion, but texting is not for the initial "so what do you like to do, let go out" stage.
He seemed nice, but I don't tend to plan a date over a tiny screen!
WTH!!!!
Not a good start, buddy!
Determined22
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I met this guy and gave him my cell number about 2 weeks ago.
Isn't it weird that he has only "text" me rather than calling? Call me old fashion, but texting is not for the initial "so what do you like to do, let go out" stage.
He seemed nice, but I don't tend to plan a date over a tiny screen!
I've noticed that guys are using texting as their "I don't like to talk on the phone" screen.
I figure, if you can't make the effort to have at least one phone conversation with me, then I can't make the effort to spend time with you.
CurliDiva
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This is my first time running into someone that into texting!
erplexed I don't plan to reply to any of his texts - maybe he'll get the hint. If not, no biggie.
Maa Maa omo mti
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I was good this whole week up until now. 
I didn't think about nor did I long for a guy, but after talking to one of the idiots I used to date I'm back into my sad mood.
Just to think I was happy beginning of the week, now I'm down.
I shouldn't have called him back...
I didn't think about nor did I long for a guy, but after talking to one of the idiots I used to date I'm back into my sad mood. Just to think I was happy beginning of the week, now I'm down.
I shouldn't have called him back...
prettypuff1
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i think there is someone interested in me.. .I dont know though... he and i have the same friends. we just met last week. He used to be playfully evil to me, but no he is extra friendly to me. I gave him my number yesterday and we have been talking since then. He called me last night, this afternoon to eat lunch, he called me when he was on his break at work and he is gonna call me when he gets off work. the thing is he is muslim and i really didnt get the impression that they dated non muslims/ would be interested in me... But he calls me more often than most ppl.. i dont know I like him like that...... my friend in italy hasn;t sent me a message in a week so who knows what is going on there....
sunshinebeautiful
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LMAO!
Great idea!
I thought the fact that this guy is absolutely not relationship material at this point would be enough to keep me from getting caught up.
I don't know what happened.
(maybe it's that SUV he's driving, LMAO!!!)
I almost spit out my glass of wine all over the computer screen. lol.
I'm about to check in for real and tell my story because it is sad.
I wish I had a SUV or I might even be able to deal with a Civic right about now. It's been entirely too long since I've been taken out for a drive or even sat in the passenger seat for that matter.
prettypuff1
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I had no idea what an svu was lol
sunshinebeautiful
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OK. I'm back with my story. I'm single and I need support, lol. My birthday is creeping up and I'm inching deeper and deeper into my late 20s with no man in sight. I might be happy being single if I were dating, but I live in the middle of nowhere land (for grad school) and I don't even remember the last time a man has even looked at me with some interest. Well, I'm lying. It was about 6 months ago and dude was let go because he was in an "open relationship." I guess I was supposed to be the piece on the side.
I haven't met anyone I've been interested in dating for, oh, about 5 years now. That is, if you don't count my ex, who is as unsettled and untogether as the day is long. I love him to death, love spending time with him, talk to him frequently, and love going out for long drives, but we just aren't on the same page. He used to be the "maintenance man," auditioning for an upgrade to permanent chaffeur. He would get me through those long months (and he was a long distance maintenance man at that!), but it's been 1-1/2 years since we've gone on a drive, and I'm getting restless.
Tonight's a bad night for me. I'm feeling extra undesirable and unloved. *sigh* I'm about to go hitchhiking in a minute, but ya'll ain't hear that from me. I know I shouldn't which is why I've held out for so long, but my patience is wearing thin. I just wish I had someone here to hold me and love me. I'm sorry, this is the white zinfandel talking. It will be better in the morning. Although I still think I'm past due for a tuneup. I'm telling too much of my business so I'm going to stop now.
I haven't met anyone I've been interested in dating for, oh, about 5 years now. That is, if you don't count my ex, who is as unsettled and untogether as the day is long. I love him to death, love spending time with him, talk to him frequently, and love going out for long drives
, but we just aren't on the same page. He used to be the "maintenance man," auditioning for an upgrade to permanent chaffeur. He would get me through those long months (and he was a long distance maintenance man at that!), but it's been 1-1/2 years since we've gone on a drive, and I'm getting restless.Tonight's a bad night for me. I'm feeling extra undesirable and unloved. *sigh* I'm about to go hitchhiking in a minute, but ya'll ain't hear that from me. I know I shouldn't which is why I've held out for so long, but my patience is wearing thin. I just wish I had someone here to hold me and love me. I'm sorry, this is the white zinfandel talking. It will be better in the morning. Although I still think I'm past due for a tuneup. I'm telling too much of my business so I'm going to stop now.
sunshinebeautiful
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Might I reference you to the "I guess lightning does strike twice" thread. Good reading, lol.
Poobity
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I'm so late posting to this thread. Better late than never, I guess. Anyhoo, my story is that I'm a single mom to a five-year-old, and I've been divorced for 2 years. I'm in school, trying to get my life together, and I'm slated to graduate next May.
Most days I'm totally okay with being single b/c I don't have to deal with another person and his personality and funky moods, lol. But occasionally, I wish I had someone that I could talk to and cuddle with.
Lately, I've met and talked to some people I met on various sites on the internet. Met someone @ school. That SO didn't work out, lol. And I met someone @ Wal-Mart when I was looking a hot mess and was high on allergy meds. He's the person who I'm most curious about. We've talked a little over the phone. We have tenatively planned a date for the beginning of next week.
I'll keep you guys posted.
Most days I'm totally okay with being single b/c I don't have to deal with another person and his personality and funky moods, lol. But occasionally, I wish I had someone that I could talk to and cuddle with.
Lately, I've met and talked to some people I met on various sites on the internet. Met someone @ school. That SO didn't work out, lol. And I met someone @ Wal-Mart when I was looking a hot mess and was high on allergy meds. He's the person who I'm most curious about. We've talked a little over the phone. We have tenatively planned a date for the beginning of next week.
I'll keep you guys posted.
sunshinebeautiful
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OK, the white zinfandel has worn off and I've come to my senses. I'm not hitchhiking. My birthday is coming up and I just get hella frustrated on a more and more frequent basis. I'm sure someone out there can relate.
Determined22
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I'm so late posting to this thread. Better late than never, I guess. Anyhoo, my story is that I'm a single mom to a five-year-old, and I've been divorced for 2 years. I'm in school, trying to get my life together, and I'm slated to graduate next May.
Most days I'm totally okay with being single b/c I don't have to deal with another person and his personality and funky moods, lol. But occasionally, I wish I had someone that I could talk to and cuddle with.
Lately, I've met and talked to some people I met on various sites on the internet. Met someone @ school. That SO didn't work out, lol. And I met someone @ Wal-Mart when I was looking a hot mess and was high on allergy meds. He's the person who I'm most curious about. We've talked a little over the phone. We have tenatively planned a date for the beginning of next week.
I'll keep you guys posted.
Hey soror! EEE-Yip!
Poobity
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Hey soror! EEE-Yip!
Eee-Yip, Soror!
***back to regularly scheduled programming, lol***
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