AnnDriena_
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This a story from the bridal forum at bride.com.
Whether or not you have a problem with touching and think it's cheating or not. Why even marry a man who thinks this is okay and she had the nerve to be sick. She called the strippers skanky...what does that make your future hubby?erplexed
Story:
Okay so this weekend was my FH's bachelor party. I was totally supportive, told him to have a great time, and made peace with the fact that I knew there would be a zillion guys and three strippers at his party. I was completely cool with him watching three skanky strippers take their clothes off and do whatever show they do. HOWEVER, we had a no touching clause, since too us touching is like cheating.
SO FH gets home last night, I ask him how it was, he says he had a great time and that it was interesting... I ask him to elaborate on what that meant and he said they took his belt off and whipped him with it, I'm thinking in my head, remain calm, that is the kind of S&%$ they do to the bachelor, then he tells me they cuffed him up in front of everyone (my heart starts thumping harder), so I joke well atleast you don't have any welts on your back (trying ot be light hearted), his face gets red and he drops his drawers to show me two huge welts on his A$$! Then I was getting sick to my stomach when he tells me the stripper pulled down his pants and whipped him. That's the point I ran to the bathroom to be sick......
Now call me crazy but I think that crossed a line. He told me that nothing else happened and while he was honest, I just don't know what to do. It makes me sick to think of thos women doing what they did. I just don't know.....
Am I over-reacting or is this something that I should re-evaluate our relationship over? I'm just really sad and really scared right now. I totally trusted him and my heart is broken that this happened. Any and all advice is appreciated....
She trusted him implicitly. And that was not the problem.
My problem comes in when a man thinks he needs to look forward to his new life with you by watching another woman disrobe.
When these men throw these disgusting soiree they swear they are saying goodbye to their old life. Thing is most of them never had this life. They were not popping bottles and livin' it up with strippers. To me it's just their reinforcing some imaginary dream bachelor life that they never had. After all if it was all that fun why are they getting married.
Whether or not you have a problem with touching and think it's cheating or not. Why even marry a man who thinks this is okay and she had the nerve to be sick. She called the strippers skanky...what does that make your future hubby?erplexed
Story:
Okay so this weekend was my FH's bachelor party. I was totally supportive, told him to have a great time, and made peace with the fact that I knew there would be a zillion guys and three strippers at his party. I was completely cool with him watching three skanky strippers take their clothes off and do whatever show they do. HOWEVER, we had a no touching clause, since too us touching is like cheating.
SO FH gets home last night, I ask him how it was, he says he had a great time and that it was interesting... I ask him to elaborate on what that meant and he said they took his belt off and whipped him with it, I'm thinking in my head, remain calm, that is the kind of S&%$ they do to the bachelor, then he tells me they cuffed him up in front of everyone (my heart starts thumping harder), so I joke well atleast you don't have any welts on your back (trying ot be light hearted), his face gets red and he drops his drawers to show me two huge welts on his A$$! Then I was getting sick to my stomach when he tells me the stripper pulled down his pants and whipped him. That's the point I ran to the bathroom to be sick......
Now call me crazy but I think that crossed a line. He told me that nothing else happened and while he was honest, I just don't know what to do. It makes me sick to think of thos women doing what they did. I just don't know.....
Am I over-reacting or is this something that I should re-evaluate our relationship over? I'm just really sad and really scared right now. I totally trusted him and my heart is broken that this happened. Any and all advice is appreciated....
She trusted him implicitly. And that was not the problem.
My problem comes in when a man thinks he needs to look forward to his new life with you by watching another woman disrobe.
When these men throw these disgusting soiree they swear they are saying goodbye to their old life. Thing is most of them never had this life. They were not popping bottles and livin' it up with strippers. To me it's just their reinforcing some imaginary dream bachelor life that they never had. After all if it was all that fun why are they getting married.