For the most part, I agree with many of these posts defending Tyra. At core, she, like most of us, was born into a world that pretty much from day ONE told us the following:
a) Being pretty is a female's duty.
and
b) "Nappy" hair is ugly.
But for Tyra, it didn't stop there. She went into the BELLY of the beast! The American beauty industry. And, by playing by their rules, became arguably one of the most successful supermodels of them all! The stuff you have to do to get there doesn't just slide off of you. You internalize some of it. You get caught up in stuff. I'm sure she has people "advising" her. Giving her all kinds of conflicting messages. Generating even MORE insecurity.
Divas like Tyra and Beyoncee (and even Oprah and--I dare say--Michelle Obama) are PAVING THE WAY for our Afro-haired daughters of the future by providing a basic CONCEPT of a black woman holding such high positions (ie a lot of whites wouldn't even be able to IMAGINE these things without them). But they are clearly signaling to us via their actions/choices that this society is STILL not a safe enough place for them to feel comfortable showing that part of who they are. It IS a pretty vulnerable part for many of us (especially those of us who were not only told this stuff by our families and friends, but by the AMERICAN PUBLIC AT LARGE!)
So the truth is, the very FACT that they are on TOP of their game, YET don't sport naturals isn't so much about THEM as it is about what is going on at the grassroots level. WE are the foot soliders. If we want to see natural divas, we need to buy more India Irie, Jill Scott, Macy Grey etc. We need to write to the production companies. We need to pull out all the stops! Encourage MORE shows like the one Tyra did. Have our hair dillemmas on the tips of the tongues of women (and men) of ALL races!
Basically, if we don't start a mini-revolution within each of us everyday folk, we won't see change on the stage. Think about it, if, when folks thought of a black woman (whether they were black or white), they EXPECTED to see a head full of beautiful, dense, coils or twists etc., and were actually DISAPPOINTED or turned OFF when they didn't see it, BEST believe those executives would get the message QUICKLY. It's ultimately about the bottom dollar.
Maybe this show was Tyra's cry for help/mobilization. Maybe we should all write her exectives on BOTH of her shows and threaten to boycott if they don't let her show her hair IN PEACE! LOL! Who knows....
It's possible...