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This is a question for both virgins and non virgins... and I would ask everybody to really THINK about their answer and not just give the PC response ("oh if he loves you, he'd do this, oh if he somehow isn't comfortable with the situation then he's no good anyway blah blah blah").
So say she (or that you) was a virgin and dating a guy who was not a virgin. He wants to be with her but knows long term he's not really okay with the waiting til marriage thing. (She does not necessarily know/accept this.) However in the meantime they get along and enjoy dating and consider themselves in an exclusive relationship.
Do you think it's smart or foolish for her to compromise with "other things" so as to not have sex? Would that perhaps sway a man on the fence and keep him satiated to the point that maybe they would make it to marriage?
Assume the whole purity concept is not an issue (i.e. it's not a dealbreaker for her to compromise in that her virginity is now wasted or something like that... no morality play on the "other stuff.")
What are your thoughts about virgins in relationships?
eta: I just threw a poll in kind of for fun, those aren't any hard guidelines or anything
So say she (or that you) was a virgin and dating a guy who was not a virgin. He wants to be with her but knows long term he's not really okay with the waiting til marriage thing. (She does not necessarily know/accept this.) However in the meantime they get along and enjoy dating and consider themselves in an exclusive relationship.
Do you think it's smart or foolish for her to compromise with "other things" so as to not have sex? Would that perhaps sway a man on the fence and keep him satiated to the point that maybe they would make it to marriage?
Assume the whole purity concept is not an issue (i.e. it's not a dealbreaker for her to compromise in that her virginity is now wasted or something like that... no morality play on the "other stuff.")
What are your thoughts about virgins in relationships?
eta: I just threw a poll in kind of for fun, those aren't any hard guidelines or anything