Relocating for a Man

[Spongie Bloom]

ok this is my personal thing

scenario A i probably would do it, if im thinking about relocating its probably the whole picture im no ahppy with, the city and everything else and finding men on my wavelength when i relocate will be a bonus. I mean i have lived in two different cultures and the one im living in right now i cant see myself marrying someone in this culture and society cause its too different from mine.

Scenario B nope sorry i wouldnt do it, why doesnt he relocate for me??? I dunno it just doesnt seem like something i would do

 

[MD_Lady]

If I had a good job and a nice place to live in my current city of residence, I wouldn't consider relocating for an.y.bo.dy UNLESS I could readily obtain those things in the new city. I wouldn't call the woman in either scenario A or B desparate, but I don't think it's wise to potentially set yourself up for unemployment and/or homelessness for the possibility of finding a relationship. It might not be romantic, but IMO, it is realistic.

 

[Odontyouwish]

I don't know. My fiance is going to move to me in January of next year, but I really don't want to wait. I think about moving to where he is all the time. But in the case of #2....hmmm I don't think I could. She doesn't really know him!

 

[LisaLisa1908]

I can't see moving FOR someone that I don't have definite plans with. I can see moving in order to improve my life, whatever way that is.

 

[iCandyc]

I think it depends on the situation, I plan on relocating to be w/my S.O as we're in a LDR for over a year now. We've known each other 10 years now and have had feelings for each other for a very long time, we have plans for our future and if it doesn't work out i'll have no regrets!