SincerelyJane
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I have two friends who dated several years ago. He treated her like crap, he was not nice to her at all. And then he dumped her. I think he did it because he wasn't ready to settle down and he wanted to whore around. She was heartbroken. Then she met someone new, who is nice but can be controlling. But he's rich, so. My dude friend dated around and slept around a bunch, but never had anything serious. We all felt none of the new girls he brought around could measure up to HER, but whatever, his life, his stupid choices.
Now, she's engaged, and she and her current fiance plan to get married next yr. My dude friend just heard about it through the grapevine and is heartbroken. He regrets how he treated her and wants to get her back! He plans to write her a letter, begging her to give him another chance.
I think he should leave her alone, I predicted all of this 5 yrs ago when stuff started to hit the fan, and though I care for him as a friend, I think he is getting what he justly deserves! Just shut up! She's getting married now, your loss! I think its unfair for him to try to muddle in her relationship now. I would be pissed to get an e-mail like that. The guys in our circle are like... hey... go after what you want!
What do you think? How would you respond?
Now, she's engaged, and she and her current fiance plan to get married next yr. My dude friend just heard about it through the grapevine and is heartbroken. He regrets how he treated her and wants to get her back! He plans to write her a letter, begging her to give him another chance.
I think he should leave her alone, I predicted all of this 5 yrs ago when stuff started to hit the fan, and though I care for him as a friend, I think he is getting what he justly deserves! Just shut up! She's getting married now, your loss! I think its unfair for him to try to muddle in her relationship now. I would be pissed to get an e-mail like that. The guys in our circle are like... hey... go after what you want!
What do you think? How would you respond?