Should A Guy Ask For U To Come Over ...

[TwoSnapsUp]

Wait so y'all judging a girl who looking for a right now..

Or even a "Netflix buddie "should have a date night?


Im only judging if it's a guy not doing nothing for himself and broke no image at all...

But if engineer pull up in a Maserati (ex) good looking y'all looking for something short term even a come chill is less of?

Sis, your mind is made up. I'm not sure why you even bothered with this thread.

Go, and have fun.
Use a condom.

YOLO, and all that other annoying stuff.

 

[summerof1990]

People - quick - post some BGAE links that reflect this situation... Here is mine -

But he asking you to go over his house.... he may not be broke but if he isn't spending it, he is useless.

So the sex invite cannot lead into trips and goyard bags?

 

[RocStar]

So the thing is I just have the feeling he going to invite me over...

and once I ask a location and direction he says a home address

I guess I'll leave him alone too bad real smooth game

From what you have indicated that is NOT smooth game.

I say if I do choose to go over at least he's not a broke one....

Huh?

nice looking good body and exp car.... ugh

You don't even know if he owns that car.

In general, please be extremely cautious when dating.

 

[Bunnyhaslonghair]

Wait so y'all judging a girl who looking for a right now..

Or even a "Netflix buddie "should have a date night?


Im only judging if it's a guy not doing nothing for himself and broke no image at all...

But if engineer pull up in a Maserati (ex) good looking y'all looking for something short term even a come chill is less of?

No shade op but it sounds like you're judging yourself. If you want a buddy thats your business. No judgement here. But you made this thread looking for validation (maybe??) before dude has even asked you. You could have just rolled with it and did you.

We just wanted to inform you on what you might be getting yourself into, in case you were looking for a serious relationship.

 

[Daernyris]

Wait so y'all judging a girl who looking for a right now..

I don't think anyone is judging you or what a girl wants.

Not to be rude but you started a thread asking for opinions/advice and you received it.

 

[lavaflow99]

So the sex invite cannot lead into trips and goyard bags?

If you trying to get trips and gucci bags out of him, going about it all wrong.

Let me refer you to the book Ho Tactics

 

[movingforward13]

So the sex invite cannot lead into trips and goyard bags?

Just being real with you the longer you hold off the sex- the more likelier you will get trips and goyard bags. You give it up for nothing, you will just be someone in his rotation when his other chicks are boring him. Seriously- come over and chill means NO respect---- please read http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2015/05/date_like_a_spartan.html

 

[Daernyris]

@Bunnyhaslonghair
We were thinking alike

 

[hopeful]

All people need to be vetted. I wouldn't want to be alone with a woman I just met at a gas station.
Vetting is required of anyone before you are alone at your house or alone at theirs.
That goes for:
•future boyfriends
•future husbands
•future friends
•future f buddies
•future whatever
Because you love yourself, the only you you have, and want to keep yourself safe. So even if you don't go on a real "date" you must get to know a person somewhere safe, even if it's at a coffee shop or something.

 

[Bunnyhaslonghair]

Just being real with you the longer you hold off the sex- the more likelier you will get trips and goyard bags. You give it up for nothing, you will just be someone in his rotation when his other chicks are boring him. Seriously- come over and chill means NO respect---- please read http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2015/05/date_like_a_spartan.html

Preach the truth.

 

[Dposh167]

Op if u want sex...then just get sex. Do it safely. We couldnt tell by your initial post if u were just trying to get laid or if u were looking for a serious man.

But dont come back here after yall do it and ask us why he isnt commiting.

 

[Lylddlebit]

Wait so y'all judging a girl who looking for a right now..

Or even a "Netflix buddie "should have a date night?


Im only judging if it's a guy not doing nothing for himself and broke no image at all...

But if engineer pull up in a Maserati (ex) good looking y'all looking for something short term even a come chill is less of?

Yep, but I wouldn't have said a peep had you not asked.

That's your business.

 

[LovelyRo]

OP... do you but, be careful. He's a dude that you met at the gas station... you don't know him or what you'd be walking into by going to his house.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

 

[LiftedUp]

You remind me of a former friend lol. I'll tell you what I'd tell her, "wait til he asks you out first".

 

[fula97]

So the sex invite cannot lead into trips and goyard bags?

Usually not if you met never had a convo/date and go straight to his house

 

[tibb1908]

NO! You don't know him. You shouldn't allow him to pick up yet either because you don't know him. Read all of the reasons in this thread, then read them again. He needs to court you unless you are looking for someone to Netflix and chill with and move on.

Safety First~

 

[WhoIAm]

Wait so y'all judging a girl who looking for a right now..

Or even a "Netflix buddie "should have a date night?


Im only judging if it's a guy not doing nothing for himself and broke no image at all...

But if engineer pull up in a Maserati (ex) good looking y'all looking for something short term even a come chill is less of?

No offense but you sound birdish. How do you even know if it's his car?

 

[Brwnbeauti]

So the thing is I just have the feeling he going to invite me over...

and once I ask a location and direction he says a home address

I guess I'll leave him alone too

But a girl is allowed to thot one night in her life right

I say if I do choose to go over at least he's not a broke one....

In his momma whip tryna get you to come over while she at work.
And a cut buddy should not be a stranger. Too dangerous out there.

 

[shespoison]

I actually don't know I just met him at the gas station

You play too much. I just cackled out loud.

 

[PJaye]

Op if u want sex...then just get sex. Do it safely. We couldnt tell by your initial post if u were just trying to get laid or if u were looking for a serious man.

But dont come back here after yall do it and ask us why he isnt commiting.

Or, to help you identify a rash that's been disrupting your life and southern region.

 

[GetHappy2014]

Although I am not suggesting that you go to a STRANGER'S house alone. Please tell someone where you are going and any information you have about this guy. His address, license plate #, description of his car, where he works and a description of him. Then let him know you are leaving this information with your brother, male cousin..... Secretly check in (text) with someone while you are with him.

 

[awhyley]

Has he called yet?
People here giving out all this EXCELLENT advice, and he may not ever call the OP.

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

Are you serious? Are you trolling? I can't tell.
(Serious question)

I knew this thread would deliver when I read the title.

 

[summerof1990]

Op if u want sex...then just get sex. Do it safely. We couldnt tell by your initial post if u were just trying to get laid or if u were looking for a serious man.

But dont come back here after yall do it and ask us why he isnt commiting.

Has he called yet?
People here giving out all this EXCELLENT advice, and he may not ever call the OP.

yes all them time

 

[summerof1990]

im not even sure if he will invite me to the house or a spot
saying if he do i know it was a NO NO

But i was asking would yall judge a woman who goes over because not everyone
is looking for a mr. right all the time

 

[lesedi]

yes all them time

I don't think I understand. So he has called you,but hasn't asked you over?

 

[BrownSkinPoppin]

im not even sure if he will invite me to the house or a spot
saying if he do i know it was a NO NO

But i was asking would yall judge a woman who goes over because not everyone
is looking for a mr. right all the time

Well that wasn't what you asked. If you go back and look at your post you asked if you should say yes to a chill date.

Two different questions.

 

[mzpurp]

Any updates, OP?

 

[BEAUTYU2U]

Does our judgment matter? The question is....are you comfortable to get some random D and go on about your life? If you can handle it, then do it.