So I have to be honest I am of African descendant (my mom is from Namibia) and I have lived with a lot of cultures in my life and I have not been with an African man for about 5 years +.....
So .... from past experience ...... African men that I have been with have been a bit .... basic when it comes to terms with lovemaking........
I am with one now and I found myself falling in love, love with this a "wonderful", well-educated (aka he has traveled a lot) African dude BUT......... we had our first night and I am bruised from head to....p..... to toe.......
I thought that this was excitement from the first night on his part but now it has gotten worse....... so.........
I have told him to take it slow and that it hurts me (he can see all his goddamn bruises but he won't listen)and he says I am too soft and have been lacking a REAL MAN... to do me right.....
Do I teach or do I let it go......
.....
P.S. His goods are not big at all nor attractive
So .... from past experience ...... African men that I have been with have been a bit .... basic when it comes to terms with lovemaking........
I am with one now and I found myself falling in love, love with this a "wonderful", well-educated (aka he has traveled a lot) African dude BUT......... we had our first night and I am bruised from head to....p..... to toe.......
I thought that this was excitement from the first night on his part but now it has gotten worse....... so.........
I have told him to take it slow and that it hurts me (he can see all his goddamn bruises but he won't listen)and he says I am too soft and have been lacking a REAL MAN... to do me right.....
Do I teach or do I let it go......
.....
P.S. His goods are not big at all nor attractive