Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race?

[FlowerHair]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

Edited: deleted my reply...I didn't know that OP didn't know English.
I'm sorry!

 

[liljoy]

Spaniels????

Are you part of the Canis Lupus family???

Awww u just google it? Huh

As long that u are not part of them, it shouldn't bother u right?

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[FlowerHair]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

Awww u just google it? Huh

As long that u are not part of them, it shouldn't bother u right?

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No, it really doesn't bother me at all.

 

[Briabiggles]

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Spaniels????

Are you part of the Canis Lupus family???

I was wondering if anyone was going to say anything...

No offense to OP but shouldn't that be Spaniards....

ETA Nevermind...she knew what she was typing!

 

[dannie]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

So my sister is dating an African American man and they walking down the hall in college and two African American woman passed by them and one said to the other one( oh look a that white puerto rican ***** taking our black mens from us....

Are u freaking serious

First of all we are Dominicans, and I think nobody has the right to tell anybody who u can or cannot date, and what is so wrong just because u are black he should be dating you instead of me?

Second of all Dominicans are a mixture of Indians tainos, african American and spaniels, pliz do some research and don't come out as ignorant,
Dominicans, puerto Ricans, cuban it all goes back to slavery, when the spaniel invaded we were slave just like African American.
Did u know that we are 58% Indian tainos, 32% african American and about 10% spaniels so please before talking all this nonsense do some research and I am sorry, I really took this personal cause it happend to me before, I was stared at just because I was going out with a black man.
this black man is not dating me cause he don't like his owns, he just don't like u period
Have u ever thought about maybe is you as a woman, not a black woman, not a Asian woman, not a white woman just u as a woman period, maybe is you personality, or your low self stem period, gosh.

The race situation has been taken too far for so long so do some soul searching before coming on as ignorant..

Now thas my personal opinion what do u all think..?


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I've heard several times from non blk girls who date out. And I always think to myself....how do you know?

And I'm not trying to be snarky but I dont think anyone knows another person's motivation for what they do besides the actual person in question.

 

[vainღ♥♡jane]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

yal come on lol. i'm assuming english is not her first language. yal know what she meant! ♥

 

[qchelle]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

yal come on lol. i'm assuming english is not her first language. yal know what she meant! ♥

Yea....she meant spaniels...

Let me start of by saying that u don't have to assume anything but the reality is that I am not putting nobody down, I do believed that back then the SPANIARDS act like real dogs toward the tainos, and thas just to say the least cause to put innocent people go through slavery just so their pockets could be filled up with gold by the sweat and blood of innocent people yes I did, and I will keep calling them dogs,

And for the records I am talking about the actions of some SPANIARDS back then.

Now days is really easy to be consider smart just by the type or words people use and how they use it, truth is that thanks God there is google, anybody can find the right words and the right spelling an be consider smart without a problem.
I am not the smarted but I know how to google, so I do know what SPANIELS meant.

Did you say that you're not putting anybody down...and then turn around and say that you'll keep calling them dogs? Maybe I'm not reading it right...??

 

[liljoy]

yal come on lol. i'm assuming english is not her first language. yal know what she meant! ♥

Thank u, It don't really bother me, cause trust me I've seen worse here specially from people that English is their first language.

But it is always easier to see other peoples flaws instead of our own, is the law of life.


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[liljoy]

Edited: deleted my reply...I didn't know that OP didn't know English.
I'm sorry!

Ohhh it took u that long to realize it? I wonder why


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[liljoy]

Yea....she meant spaniels...



Did you say that you're not putting anybody down...and then turn around and say that you'll keep calling them dogs? Maybe I'm not reading it right...??

Yes u are reading it right, I did put them down for what they did back then, is not my place to judge anybody but is my right to say what I think, don't get me wrong I don't have anything against them now cause I wouldn't make sense, I was putting out how I feel about what they did in the pass


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[tatiana]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

My question is how would you feel if your brother/uncle/male cousin was dating a African American female?

I know of a Salvadoran brother and sister. The mom was cool when her daughter was dating an African American but was not cool when her son was dating an African American.

I have dated Latinos and I have had Latinas give me ugly faces and say stuff in Spanish under their breath. I have seen a white female look at a WM/BF in disgust.

Dark hair whites girls complain about how a guy dates only blondes. Older women talk mess when they see an older man with a younger female.

Women and men act that way. If it is not race, its color, its culture, its weight, its age, its education level, or its just something.

 

[liljoy]

My question is how would you feel if your brother/uncle/male cousin was dating a African American female?

I know of a Salvadoran brother and sister. The mom was cool when her daughter was dating an African American but was not cool when her son was dating an African American.

I have dated Latinos and I have had Latinas give me ugly faces and say stuff in Spanish under their breath. I have seen a white female look at a WM/BF in disgust.

Dark hair whites girls complain about how a guy dates only blondes. Older women talk mess when they see an older man with a younger female.

Women and men act that way. If it is not race, its color, its culture, its weight, its age, its education level, or its just something.

U are totally right, and I think everybody has the right to choose who they Gonna be with, regardless their color or race, sometimes people spend so much time trying to live others people life's that they forget to live their own.

And if a AA guy wants to go out with a white, Latina, Asian etc he must have his reason, same thing goes if a Latino or whatever race want to go out with an AA woman, I mean what is so wrong about it? Some people are just being ignorant these day, but I guess it's just the way it is......


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[ebonylocs]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

Let me start of by saying that u don't have to assume anything but the reality is that I am not putting nobody down, I do believed that back then the SPANIARDS act like real dogs toward the tainos, and thas just to say the least cause to put innocent people go through slavery just so their pockets could be filled up with gold by the sweat and blood of innocent people yes I did, and I will keep calling them dogs,

And for the records I am talking about the actions of some SPANIARDS back then.

Now days is really easy to be consider smart just by the type or words people use and how they use it, truth is that thanks God there is google, anybody can find the right words and the right spelling an be consider smart without a problem.
I am not the smarted but I know how to google, so I do know what SPANIELS meant.

Oh and excuse my stupidity but I don't really understand what u meant by " keep it yourself "

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Sorry if I offended you, I didn't mean to. I just thought I'd bring it to your attention in case you didn't realise. And you see I phrased it as a question to make sure I got what you meant. I don't point out those things to put people down, but simply because I think it's best to know the correct thing. I prefer when people correct me than for me go on in ignorance and embarrass myself. But I understand not everyone feels that way.


My "keep it to yourself" comment was directed at the girls who thought they had the right to make snarky comments out loud about your sis and her boyfriend.

 

[liljoy]

Sorry if I offended you, I didn't mean to. I just thought I'd bring it to your attention in case you didn't realise. And you see I phrased it as a question to make sure I got what you meant. I don't point out those things to put people down, but simply because I think it's best to know the correct thing. I prefer when people correct me than for me go on in ignorance and embarrass myself. But I understand not everyone feels that way.


My "keep it to yourself" comment was directed at the girls who thought they had the right to make snarky comments out loud about your sis and her boyfriend.

That is not a problem and I am glad u point it out so I can explain better what I meant, I saw that there were more people wondering about the same thing and none of them mention anything so I thank u for that and after reading the post again I realize what u meant about the
" the keep it to you self" comment.

I don't take none of the comments personal cause I think if we put our experiences out there for everybody to read, then we have to have in mind that there are gonna be people that don't feel the same way we do, and others are just gonna be ignorant about it, and others don't have anything better to do than say negative things or harsh comments.

So it's all good I am glad u put it out there and no need to feel sorry, specially if u didn't said nothing wrong.


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[Valerie]

Re: Does the race card has to be played every time a Black man dates outside his race

Liljoy, I sorry to hear that the rubbish those two ladies were sprouting out, but unfortunately, there is a seize mentality overy black men and women, there is not enough and until people realise that there is more that enough, and people are happy and wish each other their best, we will always have this.