LovelyNaps26
Well-Known Member
All of the African women I knew growing up were natural but usually wore braids. My mother is anti relaxers. I didn't get my first relaxer until 21. I notice more of my relatives are relaxed now than they were in the 90's-2001.
OK. I got my info from reading a piece by a young African women from BGLH, I think. It might have been Curly Nikki
Most African women i know (mom, sister, aunts,cousins,friends) have natural hair. In my experience i don't think the desire for relaxed or straight hair is so deeply ingrained in our culture that we would have a natural hair "phenomenon" or "movement".
I'm wondering what would lead you to believe that most "West African" women wear weaves, wigs and relaxed hair as opposed to east/central/southern Africans? Is this from your personal experience?
I'm actually getting info from a piece I read by a young African woman...BGLH, maybe CurlyNikki. Also, the question was specific to woman living in West Africa. I'm sure it could apply to other parts of Africa but I was curious about West Africa as this was the area the young lady was from. I'll try to find the article...who knows I might have the region mixed up.
Well, there we have it. This is one of many reasons why using the word "typical" along with Africans causes confusion.
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I agree. I realize that Africa is not one country with one distinct culture. I hope I didn't imply that. I used the term "typical" because it was used up thread to describe the "typical" African women as having a big behind, darker skinned, natural hair, etc. I was questioning that particular part of the statement. Based on the men the poster referenced (Ghanaian or Nigerian) I assumed that their wives were also West African, hence my question.
I asked for the opinion from women who are West African because while I know West African women I have never lived in West Africa. I'm genuinely curious and open to learning. I don't have a set belief or POV one way or the other.