Rejected Him 2 Years Ago; Now, I'm Feeling Him

[hopeful]

This bears repeating...

...women shouldn't chase men!
... Men reveal their true intentions when you back off and let them do the work. The truth always comes out but you gotta give it time.

 

[awhyley]

That would burn me up too. I once got back with a guy so I could dump him on his bday

 

[awhyley]

OP, don't feel bad. AGAIN, you dodged a bullet.

 

[BGT]

My date kinda sucked. He was long winded and only asked 1 question about me and he's kind of a hick. Oh well...free dinner.

 

[caribeandiva]

My date kinda sucked. He was long winded and only asked 1 question about me and he's kind of a hick. Oh well...free dinner.

NEXT!!

 

[claudzie]

 

[GeorginaSparks]

I'm just mad I didn't get to end things first!

Report to the petty thread

 

[GraceJones]

UGHHHH!!!!!

I see his ass is still bitter and entitled

 

[GraceJones]

OP have you thought about dating more than 1 person at a time? It keeps you from pining after one man and forces the men your dating to vie for you attention. Also, when things like this happen it won't bother you too much... you can just move on swiftly

 

[BGT]

OP have you thought about dating more than 1 person at a time? It keeps you from pining after one man and forces the men your dating to vie for you attention. Also, when things like this happen it won't bother you too much... you can just move on swiftly

I can barely find 1 guy I like at one time. How am I supposed to find more than 1?

 

[GraceJones]

I can barely find 1 guy I like at one time. How am I supposed to find more than 1?

Yes, I know that's the struggle for all of us. But keep trying to built the rotation. Even if it's just meeting new guys, texting, going on 1st dates. Just so you don't get caught up

 

[BGT]

Yes, I know that's the struggle for all of us. But keep trying to built the rotation. Even if it's just meeting new guys, texting, going on 1st dates. Just so you don't get caught up

Well that's what I had been doing, which is how I got a date so soon after.

There might be a new guy to introduce y'all to. We've been friends for years, good friends. I have always got the feeling that he likes me a lot but he's never made a move. If I call him and say I need help, he'll do it. He buys me things, we've gone out on dates before, he's met my whole family, even spent 7 hours with me and my family. He asked me to take some workout classes with him. Years before my mom died, she told me to marry him.

 

[Atthatday]

Well that's what I had been doing, which is how I got a date so soon after.

There might be a new guy to introduce y'all to. We've been friends for years, good friends. I have always got the feeling that he likes me a lot but he's never made a move. If I call him and say I need help, he'll do it. He buys me things, we've gone out on dates before, he's met my whole family, even spent 7 hours with me and my family. He asked me to take some workout classes with him. Years before my mom died, she told me to marry him.

There you have the answer! Friends for years, your mother (may her soul RIP) told you to marry him.

Heed the good advice, let him chase you.

 

[LovingLady]

@BGT there is a guy that reminds me of the one you described. We have been friends with for years and I know he me. Recently I have been thinking about entering into a relationship with him but I am hesitant. I don't want to loose him as a friend if it doesn't work.

 

[caribeandiva]

@BGT there is a guy that reminds me of the one you described. We have been friends with for years and I know he me. Recently I have been thinking about entering into a relationship with him but I am hesitant. I don't want to loose him as a friend if it doesn't work.

Go for it. Don't let fear of failure stop you.

 

[BGT]

There you have the answer! Friends for years, your mother (may her soul RIP) told you to marry him.

Heed the good advice, let him chase you.

He's been around my dad a few a times and even my dad, who is really hard on the guys I talk about, likes him! He said he seems very level-headed, a hard worker, a provider and would be great for me. I was SHOCKED when he said that because he never wanted me with a white guy and this guy is white.

 

[caribeandiva]

@BGT there is a guy that reminds me of the one you described. We have been friends with for years and I know he me. Recently I have been thinking about entering into a relationship with him but I am hesitant. I don't want to loose him as a friend if it doesn't work.

Also wanted to add: I actually went through your worst nightmare. We were really close friends, caught feelings for each other and it didn't work out between us. Did it ruin the friendship? Yes and no. It ruined it at first. I was so hurt that I blocked him from everything. We avoided each other like the plague for months! After much healing (and a new man ) I unblocked him. He reached out to me almost immediately. I guess he missed the friendship too. We're still friends to this day. Sure it's not the same as before but I have no regrets. Otherwise I'd always wonder what if and wouldn't be able to fully open my heart to someone else. All this to say, if your friendship means a lot to him then you'll still be friends. Don't die wondering what if?

 

[caribeandiva]

He's been around my dad a few a times and even my dad, who is really hard on the guys I talk about, likes him! He said he seems very level-headed, a hard worker, a provider and would be great for me. I was SHOCKED when he said that because he never wanted me with a white guy and this guy is white.

I never thought I'd be with a younger guy either. Yet here we are... #justsayin

 

[Embyra]

Urgh I knew he was a loser after he kept pressing the issue about what's changed now ish

You will find much better OP

 

[BGT]

Me and my "friend" are going on a date to Chipotle next Tuesday. He helped me move a few weeks ago so I bought him a gift.

 

[bklynbornNbred]

Feel like I just read a novel. Not the end I expected but as others said on to the next!

 

[BGT]

So me and my friend had dinner. It was nice! We stayed til after close and talked longer in the parking lot. We're getting coffee next week and going to a festival in a few weeks.