Ladies,
I'm still working part time at this job that I hate. There is this co-worker that I always assumed that he was a kid. I'm 32 and well I thought he was 17-18. He is actually 23.He is quite slim ( or slender as he prefer to describe himself). He thought I was his age, I'm not. I told him I was older.
During the last few weeks, I have been in a situation where I was able to talk to him more and more. Turns out he recently graduated university, bought a home, revamping it and decorating. He knows how to fix things and build thing.
Then today during the christmas souper we had at work, I discovered that he is a huge MJ fan like me. I was shocked, he knew every single song. I tested him like crazy! We talked alot. At one point he left the room and another female co-worker came and chatted with me. He then came back. He could have sat with another one of his buddy at the other end of the room. Instead, he came back and remained by my side. We talked some more.
He tested my MJ knowledge and I tested him.He nailed every question. He tested me I nailed the questions.I also discovered that he's a dj. He has a bunch of songs that he remixed and he dances.
Tonight, we talked, emailed like crazy. I couldn't help to be attracted to him more. I have the impression that it's both ways. I mean the long stares he gives me. At one point during the evening, he came to my desk and asked me if I read the email. He winked at me 5 times and smiled. He also started talking about dance.
Here is another detail. He has a girlfriend.....y'all he is hot but I'm scared. Last time I was dating /in a relationship was 5 years ago. The age thing makes me worry but when I'm with him age doesn't come to mind. It's like we are the same age. It's weird. OMG, am I a cougar?
Any advice?
Please
hmmm you lookin sessy to the bone I'm turned on.No. I'm not sure what went on that other day. Physically, he is not the type to catch my eye. In fact, he has a boyband-ish look going on. I think what got me going was his voice.
He does have a sessy voice. I can't explain it....Its like some abstract painting that you have to constantly remind yourself why its the bomb. Very odd. Not flirting with with was extremely easy. Maybe it was my hormones when I wrote the post. I don't know
I'm not gonna do it. Like I mentioned "I think" meaning not to sure what the heck is going on.
I saw him today for the first time since posting this thread(dec 24). He came by to chat with me and...well it was platonic. I looked at him and it wasen't Like...
...lol...its great to flirt and have fun...it sounds like it was pure innocence and nothing more!
. Maybe it was my hormones when I wrote the post. I don't know
... when I find myself having crazy thoughts about men I shouldn't even consider I put them on the shelf, so to speak, cause they'll usually spoil or go bad after a short while.
love this post. 
I was 23 when I met my boyfriend - now husband - at work. He had a girlfriend... I had a boyfriend. We had significant others. Do you think that stopped us from hooking up? No. We hooked up. .
I was 23 when I met my boyfriend - now husband - at work. He had a girlfriend... I had a boyfriend. We had significant others. Do you think that stopped us from hooking up? No. We hooked up. Good and solid. 2 kids, a house and 8 years of marriage later, we are still crazy for each other.
So my point is this: everyone is fair game until they are married. Marriage is big stuff, so don't mess with married folks.
Also, don't let age deter you. You keep your cool and don't be bowled over by any fool regardless of their age. If you find a man who is strong and sincere, available, makes you feel like marshmellows and icecream, then go for it. Love is risky, but it can pay off.
I certainly hope you ended both of your respective relationships before "hooking up" or that's straight triffling and LOW.
Everyone has the right to drop what they have and say "Hey, this isn't working out for me, something better has come." and pursue it! But sneaking and cheating just isn't right, relationships set the stage for engagement and marriage and the last two stages won't change once you get past the first!
That's great then!
I've seen some women, even on here do some stuff and be wrong and strong with it, chile...
