mrsjohnson75
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He's a freak 
BUT he's a liar 
...too bad (the liar part) cause that's a deal breaker imo
BUT he's a liar ...too bad (the liar part) cause that's a deal breaker imo
My first attempt at interracial dating...
- Thread starter deltadreamland
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deltadreamland
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He's a freak
...too bad (the liar part) cause that's a deal breaker imo
I agree!
mrsjohnson75
Well-Known Member
.....wellI hope you find a nice, honest, freaky man one day
cause there is nothing wrong with that
southerncitygirl
Well-Known Member
not cool...back away from him. Liar,liar, liar. if he wanted to see other people he shouldn't have told you he wanted to be exclusive and been up front....not cool at all. who knows what he's hiding. i can't stand a*&holes of any race or ethnicity.
deltadreamland
Well-Known Member
I hope you find a nice, honest, freaky man one day
cause there is nothing wrong with that
You're right about that.
FREAKY is always a good thing...as long as I'm the only one you're freaking with. 
Uber
Active Member
Hmmmmm......I think you're assuming. There is no evidence of what he was doing. It's not a good enough reason to dump someone unless he has given you reason not to trust him in the past...and that's regardless of what race he may be.
Having said that, keep your wits about you. If you're having doubts maybe there is a reason for it.
Having said that, keep your wits about you. If you're having doubts maybe there is a reason for it.
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deltadreamland
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I don't understand the bolded.
MoniintheMiddle
Well-Known Member
Always go with your first mind. If it's telling you that something isn't right then chances are something isn't right
zenith
New Member
Okay is it that ladies here don't understand the normal course of a conversation or am i missing something?
How does "can you teach spanish to a child under 6" question be replied with "NO, i said i like it wet" sound okay to you ladies... are y'all for real?!!
OP, he was clearly texting someone else. Don't try to over look obvious red flags just to prove to yourself that you can date IR.
There are plenty of honest and faithful white, hispanic, asian, indian men out there.
How does "can you teach spanish to a child under 6" question be replied with "NO, i said i like it wet" sound okay to you ladies... are y'all for real?!!
OP, he was clearly texting someone else. Don't try to over look obvious red flags just to prove to yourself that you can date IR.
There are plenty of honest and faithful white, hispanic, asian, indian men out there.
princessnad
New Member
^ I think most people realized the text wasn't meant for her... including the OP.
song_of_serenity
Well-Known Member
No evidence, Bess? Really?
I have had situations where:
1.I've received IMs as a slip that were meant for someone else.
and
2.I asked one question and the guy answered it in a sexual way in an attempt to "get things on the sexual track" and play coy and innocent but not a minute later, the inevitable "So what did you think about what I mentioned earlier..."shtick.
Could be either or. You said it was like 5 minutes later he replied? Was he so caught up in that particular conversation, he clicked reply to your message and then sent it out thinking you were another person? Or did he read what you wrote, dropped a sexual line to start things down that path to see if you'd bite?
I have had situations where:
1.I've received IMs as a slip that were meant for someone else.
and
2.I asked one question and the guy answered it in a sexual way in an attempt to "get things on the sexual track" and play coy and innocent but not a minute later, the inevitable "So what did you think about what I mentioned earlier..."shtick.
Could be either or. You said it was like 5 minutes later he replied? Was he so caught up in that particular conversation, he clicked reply to your message and then sent it out thinking you were another person? Or did he read what you wrote, dropped a sexual line to start things down that path to see if you'd bite?
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MissYocairis
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yeah...plus...you guys are just dating...you haven't become intimate...he has a right to sex other ladies...but he effed up with the texting. He tried to play it off but it was a weak save. Don't you date others while also dating him? Or, at least, are you open to it? I don't see the problem with consenting adults deciding together when they will become exclusive and prior to that, seeing other people.
deltadreamland
Well-Known Member
Yes Smuckie, I'm definitely open to dating other men. I wiped my slate clean of the previous guy(s) I was dating back in October and decided it was time to try something different and step out of my norm, since my norm wasn't making me happy.
erplexed To answer your other question, I don't really have time to date more than one or two people at a time because my son is with me a majority of the time. And between working full time and taking care of him, I'm usually exhausted by the time the weekend rolls around..kwim?...so that somewhat limits my dating time unless he's with his dad. But if I had the time and energy...I'd definitely be open to dating several men.
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