Starronda
At the start of BSL! Patiently waiting for full❤️
I need advice b/c I’m not sure if I’m over reacting, thinking way too much or have the right to be annoyed.
I’ve been dating my SO (he’s Russian) since December 2011. He lives in Queens, NY and I live in Jersey. We have spent every weekend together since meeting in December. Prior to him, I have to admit that I’ve never been in a real boyfriend/girlfriend legit relationship. I enjoy dating and loved my single life, but this man has swept me off my feet. He has his own business and does very well in life. We do many things together (travel and eat at very fancy places) He has many things that annoy the hell out of me. I just need to know if anyone else would feel this way. I’m 34 and he’s 41.
Annoying:
Use to bother me that he gets a massage, mani and pedi each Thursday *doesn’t bother me as much now*
HATE that he gets his eyebrows waxed (even though my other boyfriend who was also white did the same)
Everything has to have a label on it (Versace sunglasses, Fendi suits etc) and sometimes I feel a little silly when he’s all dressed up and I have on a damn H&M or dress from BeBe.![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
We only have sex twice a day when I’m there on the weekends..I needs WAY more than this, never brought this up to him yet.
Needs to be more affectionate, when I bring it to his attention, he does it…but at that point, it seems forced
He’s always looking in a damn mirror
Pays too much attention to what people “think” of him and his image.
Things have to be a certain way at his house (bed has to be made a certain way, so I don’t bother doing it anymore, things in the fridge a certain way, he would prefer me eat things that he enjoys=healthy foods each time I’m there)
Always suggesting what I should eat when we go out (thought this was cute when we first started dating, totally annoyed at it now)
Pros:
Makes good money
Own place (stability)
No kids
I get to get dressed up each weekend to go out to nice places
Tells me that he’s never been this happy in his life
Always says he’s so happy that we’re together
Tells me he loves me
I’ve met all of his friends
I’ve met his mom and sister and I’m invited to his sister wedding in July where more of his family will be
He includes me in everything that he does
Am I just being ridiculous? He tells me I’m too sensitive, which I don’t think I am, but ok lol….What do you think of this?
I’ve been dating my SO (he’s Russian) since December 2011. He lives in Queens, NY and I live in Jersey. We have spent every weekend together since meeting in December. Prior to him, I have to admit that I’ve never been in a real boyfriend/girlfriend legit relationship. I enjoy dating and loved my single life, but this man has swept me off my feet. He has his own business and does very well in life. We do many things together (travel and eat at very fancy places) He has many things that annoy the hell out of me. I just need to know if anyone else would feel this way. I’m 34 and he’s 41.
Annoying:
Use to bother me that he gets a massage, mani and pedi each Thursday *doesn’t bother me as much now*
HATE that he gets his eyebrows waxed (even though my other boyfriend who was also white did the same)
Everything has to have a label on it (Versace sunglasses, Fendi suits etc) and sometimes I feel a little silly when he’s all dressed up and I have on a damn H&M or dress from BeBe.
![Look :look: :look:](/smilies/look.gif)
We only have sex twice a day when I’m there on the weekends..I needs WAY more than this, never brought this up to him yet.
Needs to be more affectionate, when I bring it to his attention, he does it…but at that point, it seems forced
He’s always looking in a damn mirror
Pays too much attention to what people “think” of him and his image.
Things have to be a certain way at his house (bed has to be made a certain way, so I don’t bother doing it anymore, things in the fridge a certain way, he would prefer me eat things that he enjoys=healthy foods each time I’m there)
Always suggesting what I should eat when we go out (thought this was cute when we first started dating, totally annoyed at it now)
Pros:
Makes good money
Own place (stability)
No kids
I get to get dressed up each weekend to go out to nice places
Tells me that he’s never been this happy in his life
Always says he’s so happy that we’re together
Tells me he loves me
I’ve met all of his friends
I’ve met his mom and sister and I’m invited to his sister wedding in July where more of his family will be
He includes me in everything that he does
Am I just being ridiculous? He tells me I’m too sensitive, which I don’t think I am, but ok lol….What do you think of this?