i totally get what every else is saying but think about it, "legally married" is what man made. and it is what it is...legal, entitlements etc. marriage is spiritual...to some anyway
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. when they were getting married in the days of paul, mary, moses and what not,
no one went down to a city hall and signed papers so then they werent really married, a union joined together even though they had a ceremony?
oh and no, it doesnt cost much to get legally married.
Interesting. I don't recall anyone in the bible talking about a "marriage license" but I do recall a "bill of divorcement" being issued at the end of a marriage so it was still a "legal" matter if I'm not mistaken.
So basically I don't know about the Bible days but I know in the US on TODAY, it's illegal to have a wedding without a marriage license in every state. It's also illegal for an officiant to officiate a wedding without seeing a valid marriage license. If you need me to pull up statutes from the various states, I can.
The reason this is relevant legally is because Romans 13:1-7 states: "Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and he will commend you. For he is God's servant to do you good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword for nothing. He is God's servant, an agent of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer. Therefore, it is necessary to submit to the authorities, not only because of possible punishment but also because of conscience. This is also why you pay taxes, for the authorities are God's servants, who give their full time to governing. Give everyone what you owe him: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor."
That passage makes it abundantly clear. We are to obey the government God places over us. God created government to establish order, punish evil, and promote justice (Genesis 9:6; 1 Corinthians 14:33; Romans 12:8). We are to obey the government in everything - paying taxes, obeying rules and laws, showing respect, etc. If we do not, we are ultimately showing disrespect towards God, for He is the One who placed that government over us. When the Apostle Paul wrote Romans 13:1-7, he was under the government of Rome, during the reign of Nero, perhaps that most evil of all the Roman Emperors. Paul still recognized that government’s rule over him. How can we do any less?
Now there are times when we should disobey the laws but that's a different thread.