natural2008
Well-Known Member
Hey Ladies,
Okay here goes my man's dad and I got into a heated discussion when we were at his dad's house for New Years Day and all of the women were making the mens plates. My mans dad's father in law asked me you not going to make his plate. I said no he can make his own. My mans dad said your suppose to make his plate and I said why and he said cause in the bible it says..... i said that it does not say that in the bible and it is not cool you to gender role stereotype when you say that women should make the plates. Do yall think I was wrong? Back in the day 50-100 years ago yes making a mans plate, cleaning was the thing to do becasue the women did not work and the man brought home the money. But now-a-days things are a lot different. My man said that even now when he is at his moms home she will make him a plate and bring it to him without him asking, i said he is too grown for that and she needs to stop. he say that is just how he was raised. i feel like if a woman cooked, and everything the least he could do is make his own plate. I askd a few of my friends and they said that they did not think I was wrong. What do you all think? I am very interested in hearing your responses .
Okay here goes my man's dad and I got into a heated discussion when we were at his dad's house for New Years Day and all of the women were making the mens plates. My mans dad's father in law asked me you not going to make his plate. I said no he can make his own. My mans dad said your suppose to make his plate and I said why and he said cause in the bible it says..... i said that it does not say that in the bible and it is not cool you to gender role stereotype when you say that women should make the plates. Do yall think I was wrong? Back in the day 50-100 years ago yes making a mans plate, cleaning was the thing to do becasue the women did not work and the man brought home the money. But now-a-days things are a lot different. My man said that even now when he is at his moms home she will make him a plate and bring it to him without him asking, i said he is too grown for that and she needs to stop. he say that is just how he was raised. i feel like if a woman cooked, and everything the least he could do is make his own plate. I askd a few of my friends and they said that they did not think I was wrong. What do you all think? I am very interested in hearing your responses .