rozlips
Well-Known Member
This is such a cop-out. This idea that somehow because life is uncertain, we should just do whatever we like and the hell with the consequences. Yes, life is uncertain, but you can certainly increase your chances of a better life by making better choices. Relinquishing control doesn't help anything, it's just a cop-out, a feel-good remedy to justify the situational ethics so many folks have chosen to live by.
I didn't say that growing up without a father makes them a bad person. I said growing up without a father may well make them a bad choice for husband/wife. This is a conversation about making good choices, not about the relative good or bad in people.
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Montana said:
Let's just face it some people live in a superficial world where everyting is perfect, they have a perfect job, a perfect man, ect...then you have the people who live life, where everthing is not so perfect, maybe it's the guy who grew up w/ a dead beat dad, or it's the girl who grew up w/ a mother who never took care of her...does that make them a bad person, or a person who can't function and handle their business. In my opinon nothing is secure in this world...you can have it all today and loose it tomorrow!
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I didn't say that growing up without a father makes them a bad person. I said growing up without a father may well make them a bad choice for husband/wife. This is a conversation about making good choices, not about the relative good or bad in people.
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Montana said:
Let's just face it some people live in a superficial world where everyting is perfect, they have a perfect job, a perfect man, ect...then you have the people who live life, where everthing is not so perfect, maybe it's the guy who grew up w/ a dead beat dad, or it's the girl who grew up w/ a mother who never took care of her...does that make them a bad person, or a person who can't function and handle their business. In my opinon nothing is secure in this world...you can have it all today and loose it tomorrow!
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