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Supergirl said:
alright, on the one about not dating guys who grew up without their fathers in the house--I think that's kind of unfair, because they didn't ask to be put in that situation. My parents were divorced when I was very young & I would hate for men to say "don't mess with a woman who grew up without her father because they have issues."
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Here here! My hubby grew up without his dad and he's awesome. Just because his dad was not there, didn't mean he didn't have positive male role models to observe. My mother-in-law kept him in church and they always had youth camps for the young males in which they went out with the men of the church and did great things. My husband often speaks of the men that helped him to mold his life and to help him want to pursue higher education. Many of the men in his church had their own businesses or were in wonderful careers. So, IMO, to say simply because dad was not there they aren't worth your time is said in error. I honestly think my honey can beat some "father in the home" males, when it comes to knowing how to treat a woman good, hands down!!!!! I wouldn't trade him for any man out there...and I truly mean that.
Supergirl said:
alright, on the one about not dating guys who grew up without their fathers in the house--I think that's kind of unfair, because they didn't ask to be put in that situation. My parents were divorced when I was very young & I would hate for men to say "don't mess with a woman who grew up without her father because they have issues."
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Here here! My hubby grew up without his dad and he's awesome. Just because his dad was not there, didn't mean he didn't have positive male role models to observe. My mother-in-law kept him in church and they always had youth camps for the young males in which they went out with the men of the church and did great things. My husband often speaks of the men that helped him to mold his life and to help him want to pursue higher education. Many of the men in his church had their own businesses or were in wonderful careers. So, IMO, to say simply because dad was not there they aren't worth your time is said in error. I honestly think my honey can beat some "father in the home" males, when it comes to knowing how to treat a woman good, hands down!!!!! I wouldn't trade him for any man out there...and I truly mean that.