Why is a woman trying to physically attack me? There would be no need to defend me, because I would run in the opposite direction at once I'm not about to even think about engaging in a fight. Yeah right. I'd be like see ya! #wyliecoyote
I will run if I am on my own, but if he is there to take care of me, I will sit pretty.
A verbal sparring will stress him out so I wouldn't even engage in it with him there. He doesn't like raised voices. It took him a while to get used to the Nigerian conversation tone.
I'm... opinionated so I can get into it with people and anyone who is involved with me knows that. Men have either stepped in front of me or pull me out of it. It's never been the case where I was a passive victim, just sitting there while someone is threatening me, that's just not me so my experiences might not be relevant to the situation.
My mom got in an argument with her youngest sister (13 year age difference) at a family meeting. My aunt grabbed my mom's shirt sleeve and was getting in her face. My dad shut that sh!t down so fast. I will never forget that.
I think a man stepping in would drive the aggressor even more bonkers. Probably out of jealousy. I've seen it happen, lol.
90% olf the time the men need to stay out of it.
women handling women are one thing, men are another. tbh, I would get somebody's husband arrested foir harassment or assault for coming at me all crazy.
like I said, the men need to stay out of it.
THIS! I'm not passive either. If someone was to even raise their voice at me, I know to stand up and prepare myself for anything. DH might try to warn the woman to turn it down, since he knows that it only takes a few short words/looks to get me started. We're not the standard, so I can accept the difference of opinions in this situation.
completely disagree.
A lot of women have been in abusive situations, raised in an abusive environment or have seen a man hit a woman before. That's not a memory and visual most people, male or female, can shake.
that said, if anything a man getting involved is likely a trigger for many women.
If any man, loved or other, comes at me too aggressive I'm immediately on the defense. All I see is RED. I'm out for blood. then I'm getting him arrested as preventative future measure and a life lesson......
As I said before, I don't think Christopher was defending his wife so much as grabbing Kenya out of anger. He needed the excuse, she gave it to him.
Future SO/DH should block or preferably, grab me up. Not put his hands on another woman, period. The different genders should stay out of the other's fights.
You can tell who has/hasnt been in the situation before. Doesnt even matter which side of the argument/fight. Any woman that's been in or exposed to a similar situation knows to keep the men out of it. esp if it's a man you love and he loves you.....
Which reminds me of something that was on my mind yesterday....I wonder when todd and apollo heard about chuck's words? I don't remember it being on the show but I may have missed it.
You can tell who has/hasnt been in the situation before. Doesnt even matter which side of the argument/fight. Any woman that's been in or exposed to a similar situation knows to keep the men out of it. esp if it's a man you love and he loves you.....