apemay1969
Well-Known Member
My husband has a tendency to say stupid insensitive things that he thinks are compliments - unless he's serious passive/aggressive, which I wonder about sometimes.
Anywho, considering I'm in the 30 day encouragement challenge, I was wondering if I should address it.
Scenario - yesterday - We were at American TV and he went to the bathroom. I started looking at dining sets, walking away a bit. He started coming across the showroom and looked surprised for a minute. When he got to me, he said "Dang, I didn't even know it was you. You looked hot" Now mind you, I know he didn't think it was a bad thing but how dumb can you be. I didn't act offended, I just said 'okay, I guess that's a thanks' He still didn't get it. He warned me that he was an a$$hole before we got married three years ago but I didn't believe him. I do now.
How would you respond while still remaining as poised and encouraging as possible?
Anywho, considering I'm in the 30 day encouragement challenge, I was wondering if I should address it.
Scenario - yesterday - We were at American TV and he went to the bathroom. I started looking at dining sets, walking away a bit. He started coming across the showroom and looked surprised for a minute. When he got to me, he said "Dang, I didn't even know it was you. You looked hot" Now mind you, I know he didn't think it was a bad thing but how dumb can you be. I didn't act offended, I just said 'okay, I guess that's a thanks' He still didn't get it. He warned me that he was an a$$hole before we got married three years ago but I didn't believe him. I do now.
How would you respond while still remaining as poised and encouraging as possible?