How To Become A Challenge With Men?

[blah54]

If any of you got time, listen to SheRaSeven1 on YouTube. She has A LOT of live streams (which are good because she’s answering questions) and teaches a lot. She’s a little hood but don’t let it distract you from the message. Her videos are long too, but good info. You might not agree with everything she says, but there is a mentality behind all of it.

Overall, the best challenge you can be is to level up and stay away from Dusty and Give Me More an nem.

I agree with this she is really good with the advice and got me over my dusty real quick last year when i discovered her. I am working on my level up process and I am in her group she will snap you out of that pick me mindset. Somet of the things are stuff we already know but just reconfirming your crown

 

[*SkolarStar*]

I agree with this she is really good with the advice and got me over my dusty real quick last year when i discovered her. I am working on my level up process and I am in her group she will snap you out of that pick me mindset. Somet of the things are stuff we already know but just reconfirming your crown

I just watched (watched in the beginning and skipped towards end since they’re so long) a couple of her videos and a key answer for when a man asks what I bring to the table is, “I don’t bring anything. I’m the guest of honor.” A man only asks that question when he doesn’t have enough of what he’s bringing.

 

[*SkolarStar*]

Also, I’m so happy this thread was resurrected. All of these messages and advice is so necessary. Thank you all!

 

[Saludable84]

I just watched (watched in the beginning and skipped they towards end since they’re so long) a couple of her videos and a key answer for when a man asks what I bring to the table is, “I don’t bring anything. I’m the guest of honor.” A man only asks that question when he doesn’t have enough of what he’s bringing.

Do you remember which video.

 

[*SkolarStar*]

Do you remember which video.

Yes! It’s called “I Bring NOTHING to the TABLE”

 

[PrissiSippi]

I just watched (watched in the beginning and skipped they towards end since they’re so long) a couple of her videos and a key answer for when a man asks what I bring to the table is, “I don’t bring anything. I’m the guest of honor.” A man only asks that question when he doesn’t have enough of what he’s bringing.

I think it's important to have this mindset but I don't think it would ever go over well (it paints the girl as entitled and pompous) to tell a man this. Instead I would let my actions tell him that.

Plus any man that asks me what do I bring to the table is dusty anyway. Only the men that don't have a table to bring anything to ask this.

 

[frizzy]

I would ask "whose table, mine or yours." If he had the nerve to say his, then I would ask him what he needs or what's missing from his table.

 

[PrissiSippi]

I would ask "whose table, mine or yours." If he had the nerve to say his, then I would ask him what he needs or what's missing from his table.

I like that

 

[Saludable84]

I think it's important to have this mindset but I don't think it would ever go over well (it paints the girl as entitled and pompous) to tell a man this. Instead I would let my actions tell him that.

Plus any man that asks me what do I bring to the table is dusty anyway. Only the men that don't have a table to bring anything to ask this.

While I do agree with your comment and her video, it also depends on what you want. Ashera is not preaching to get you love; she is teaching to get you what you want. You want to be Pickmeisha for a Givememore or level up and be taken care of. Her focus is money and security. For some of we that’s what we look for the second time around

Actions or not, men still try it and it’s better to be prepared for the tried it. Men also have different ways of asking that question too. I do get that it’s a dusty question to ask, but she also said that when a man sees you value yourself and he can’t have you, he will build himself up to finally get you (or someone like you). So when a man gets to that point where he wants better, that question will keep him from lower quality. I mean, not all men want pick mes.

My last two cents I was recently asked what I could do to make a situation between myself and someone else improve. I told him I’m not doing anything more than showing up, receiving; he’s a man after all. If he doesn’t do for me, I’m gone. It’s only pompous or entitled to man looking to run through and all over you.

 

[PrissiSippi]

While I do agree with your comment and her video, it also depends on what you want. Ashera is not preaching to get you love; she is teaching to get you what you want. You want to be Pickmeisha for a Givememore or level up and be taken care of. Her focus is money and security. For some of we that’s what we look for the second time around

Actions or not, men still try it and it’s better to be prepared for the tried it. Men also have different ways of asking that question too. I do get that it’s a dusty question to ask, but she also said that when a man sees you value yourself and he can’t have you, he will build himself up to finally get you (or someone like you). So when a man gets to that point where he wants better, that question will keep him from lower quality. I mean, not all men want pick mes.

My last two cents I was recently asked what I could do to make a situation between myself and someone else improve. I told him I’m not doing anything more than showing up, receiving; he’s a man after all. If he doesn’t do for me, I’m gone. It’s only pompous or entitled to man looking to run through and all over you.

Where's the lie lol?