I wasn't shocked by sex, but that it was just so weird. I think few women fall instantly in love by thinking they want his penis. But men are different.
Right, the whole piece has this "you've been told so stop complaining and get with the program" flavor. And women are not too complex. I don't believe for a minute that the average man doesn't know what the average woman wants in relationship. Many just don't want to do the things women want and so they act obtuse.
Add to that the belief that not only are women the only ones who are capable of taking the initiative to improve our relationships (and caring enough about our partners to want to do this in the first place), we're supposed to feel "empowered" by all this... :scratchch
It amazes me how many women are eager to accept the idea that, even though men have the skills necessary to run darn near every nation, organization, and public and private entity on this planet, they are inherently incapable of using the slightest bit of insight to make the most minuscule of contributions to their own romantic relationships.
From the majority of relationship advice I've heard shared in/on TV, books, magazines, YouTube videos, on this and other internet forums, etc. over the past 5+ years. This guy may have jokes, but there are plenty of people who are dead serious.
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All of 'em!
It amazes me how many women are eager to accept the idea that, even though men have the skills necessary to run darn near every nation, organization, and public and private entity on this planet, they are inherently incapable of using the slightest bit of insight to make the most minuscule of contributions to their own romantic relationships.
It amazes me how many women are eager to accept the idea that, even though men have the skills necessary to run darn near every nation, organization, and public and private entity on this planet, they are inherently incapable of using the slightest bit of insight to make the most minuscule of contributions to their own romantic relationships.
(lies.com if they told you that they don't). I have seen men cry over women they love.
I have enough male friends and relatives to know that men DO take initiative to improve their romantic relationships. I have seen them in action: buying gifts, asking me for advice, asking their parents, friends etc. for advice, racking their brains for solutions, reading relationship advice columns
I agree. Inherently most women want to please a man but lists like these are often one-sided. Create fear in not being able to please a man. And it is loaded with stereotypes. Not all men want anal/threesomes. Not all men do not care about your shoes. And the first outfit might have been the worst. You just have to know what YOUR man likes. To be honest, sometimes I am tired of reading or hearing about relationships. What works for me, might not work for you. And vice-versa. And sometimes the best advice givers are so off in their personal life, it would amaze you! Not all men are the same. We all have our own personal love language. Everything should be taken with a grain of salt. Damn lists!
I agree with the whole list except I can see myself violating #25. I like debating amongst friends
I'm not an argumentative person but I like debates, intellectual talk ... I might jump forget loyalty in the spirit of competition I guess I better stick to LHCF for kicks and giggles. In public I'll be "I like whatever you like. I like whatever music you like."
I don't care I'm not doing anal
