Flying to SC tomorrow to meet my online BF...

Girl, you know we wanna hear the rest of this story, you don't even need to ask.

This is very romantic. I am glad you are both so happy. :spinning:
 
EB,

What a weekend!! You definitely have the gift of storytelling!! Of course we want to hear about the rest of the weekend.
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ahem....I'm here. Let me just began by saying, my dad has Alzheimer's and I have to care for him during the day and pretty much at night to. I put my mom on a plane to Dallas today for my nephew's graduation, so I've been quite busy.

Okay so now back to it.

We picked out the movies. I thought I wanted to see Annapolis, and we actually started it.

By the way...just so ya'll know he is up on my web cam now fast asleep (our nightly ritual). I told him that I write to my sisters about girly stuff and that I had shared our weekend with you ladies. He laughed and said what do you tell them? I said well pretty much everything. He was like everything? Then he sort of blushed and said I know not everything? So I did agree to not tell everything...but as much as possible. He even said he didn't care if I posted a picture of us. I don't know about that one. But I probably will. Now look ya'll out there in South Cak-a-laky don't be talking bout "girl I went to high school with him". Cause the Blue got this. Ain't no Hillary Clinton gaps in my game. Hehehe. Okay stop.

We were on the couch and he had changed into some shorts and a t-shirt. I still had on my previous clothes. To be honest I wanted to go take a shower and change into something more comfortable to, but I just didn't think I could trust myself. I know me. So the movie is playing and we are just sitting side by side, sort of like in church. At the same moment I get ready to say something about sleeping arrangements he tells me that he will sleep in one of the guest bedrooms. So that started the laughing. Which started the staring. Which started the kissing. Which started the squeezing.

His thigh I mean. I guess I had started to sort of doubt my vision earlier and just wanted to kind of... I mean just a little bit...make sure I saw what I thought I saw. I know I know that was so terrible of me. Well so yeah I let my hand roam a bit. When my hand reached it, I swear I thought it was a flashlight. He let out a gasp from his throat that sounded like I had hurt him. So I quickly removed my hand and opened my eyes. Okay okay I was really just wanting to see what I had felt. I knew then it was a done deal for me. If I never ever saw this man again, I had to go back to Texas with more knowledge than I had left with. Stone me if you want. I'm just being real.

I took a long look at what ole boy was working with. And the fabric of those shorts were fighting a losing battle at any hope of concealment. Let me put it this way, he's one of those guys that will forever have to carry a book, coat, briefcase, flat screen tv etc with him at all times. He will always need something he can put in front of him to keep from being stared at when he becomes "interested".

When I looked back up at him I knew I had crossed that line. He was staring so so deep into my eyes he looked like he was going to cry. It was so sweet. So yeah the line was crossed. Oh hell I had just erased the damn line. See we had made an agreement early on that in terms of getting physical, we would do whatever was best for us a couple. In other words, we knew we had some animal like chemistry for each other already. So being adults neither of us was going to say "oh I'ma come down but ain't nothing gone happen". We decided we would decide. Here is the line, and we would only cross it IF and only IF we decided to be a BONAFIDE COMMITTED couple. So here we were.

BONAFIDE. I sort of tilt my head and smile. A smile which said "gimme five minutes to jump in the shower and I'ma be right back". He holds his head back, the way only jocks can do and looks down at me through those incredibly long lashes. Did I tell ya'll bout them eyelashes. Yeah well anyway. I get up and turn to go to the bedroom to get in the shower. Never made it. Never ever made it past the coffee table.

Them country boys is fast. They move real fast. I was back on that couch before I knew what happened. After about a three minute kiss. We come up for air. I then actually say to him I'm going to take a shower, I'll be back. We both breathing like two panthers. So I go in his bedroom and pick out an outfit. I'm thinking purple and pink, no red, no red and black, no all black. Yeah I have quite a lingerie collection. I take my shower. Ya'll know I was checking the floor for female hair. I think this is just something we do. Ya'll do that too right?

So anyway. I get out. Wrap myself in a towel. Give myself a do you really want to do this talk, agree that yes I do. I put on my lotion and so forth. So now I'm about to put on my selection.

Somebody please tell me how homeboy is already in the bed...remote in his hand....smiling like a kid on Chrismas day....fast asleep. WTH!!!! I look at him for a long time. Trying to decide if I want to wake him up and get this party started or rethink me being so hasty. In the end I think oh well. I push aside the silk and lace, pull out the flannel boxers, my tshirt, go back in the bathroom and wash off my makeup and crawl into bed next to him.

He wakes up, smiles a me and says in a sleepy voice "you're here, I can't believe you're here". I curl up next to him with my head on his chest and we go to sleep. This man smells like I don't know, I can only describe it as fresh sun dried laundry.

Througout the night we wake up and change positions. From spooning, to me on his chest, to our legs all interwined, to back to spooning. But I will leave you with this. Just before daylight he woke me up. I thought I was dreaming or had won the lottery. You know how when an singer wins a grammy and they didn't have a speech prepared so they start thanking everybody from their kindergarten teacher to their landlord. That was me ladies. Oh thank you thank you. (Use your imagination for about the next 35 minutes and 7 orgasms later) When he came back up and looked at me I was his. Totally and completely. I knew then I was going to have to be a big girl and not a track star. He looks down at me and ask me if I'm sure I want to do this. Now really...here I am in the full throws of a left leg seizure, how am I suppose to answer anything...I mean come on. He's kissing me and telling me I have to answer him I have to say I want him to do this. I realize he likes the vocal. So I take him, it...all. I give him the ear candy he wants to hear. He takes his time. One time, two times, three....I'm done. We go back to sleep.

If this post becomes offensive to anyone, let me apologize up front. I apologize. But ladies before you leave this earth....go get you a country boy. Oh...my...God....do they send them to farm school to learn this stuff? He put to shame anyone and everyone I have ever ever ever been with. And then he went and cooked me a big ole country breakfast of grits, bacon, eggs, biscuits and coffee.

I wake up to him being gone and me wondering where the heck I was. I was sort of shook, if I may say. I'm looking around the room when he comes back in, sits on the side of the bed and ask me if I'm hungry. I really ain't trying to talk to him before brushing my teeth. So I just sort of shake my head.

He's just staring at me. Then he asks if I have any regrets and before I can answer he tells me that he doesn't. And that he knew it was a done deal before I got there. I smile at him. He kisses me. I am definitely not going to give him any tongue before I brush my teeth. He starts laughing, which makes me start laughing which made me open my mouth. This of course was his intent and he slips his tongue in my mouth. I'm like "no I have to brush my teeth". He wasn't even trying to hear that. Suffice it to say, breakfast got cold. We ate it for lunch.

Let me know if ya'll want the other two days.
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Girl, I've had one for 10 years so I know what you mean. I was a bonafide city priss but when I met dh, he was completely different. I have always thought good country southern men treat women better and love harder:yep::yep:

This is like reading a love story :kiss: I'm so happy for you!
 
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
 
Aww.... that sounds so romantic. You got you one of real country boys :grin: I want to hear the rest of the story.....
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
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WOW! This story is so special. I am so happy for you. Waiting for the rest of the story! You know you got a good one when he took down his profile! WOW!
 
Eliza!!! Man!!! I am so excited for you and you can sure tell a story!!!
I told you that it seemed to good to be true and that I wished it got even better but gosh- the better has turned to the best!!!! :grin::lick::grin:

I'll be waiting for the details of the other 2 days for sure!!!!
 
Girl I'm sitting here just a cheezin:lachen: I'm so happy for you. LDR's are like hell on earth (We had one for 3 years) when you want to be with someone. Glad you decided to follow your instincts on this guy.


-A


ElizaBlue said:
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
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Wow, just wow..I was scared for you at first but now I'm so glad he turned out to be a for real man...Congratulations, your story is Fairy Tale in Real Life...Woohoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Wow!! I think you have just about everybody single considering getting online to give online dating a try (or another try)

Congrats to you, Elizablue. :grin:
 
ElizaBlue said:
I just realized he's bow legged. Jesus keep me near the cross. :/quote]

:dead:

{quote] I'm looking at him smiling thinking wow!! He looks really handsome. He is staring at me with a "do you approve" look. His sister starts laughing, and sort of chokes out behind her hand..."oh **** I think he in love" she gets up and walks out of the room. He tells her to please leave his property. She's laughing saying I know I need to leave know, she got you to put on a suit.
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LOL. I like her!

He comes over and ask can he have a real hug now. He was a little timid when he wasn't all cleaned up. So now I'm nervous. I slide off the barstool and I'm in three inch heels. He is about a good 5 inches over me still. He wasn't that tall but I guess the shoes he had on added a little bit more height. Anyway, he's looking down at me and I honestly cannot breath. I dont' want to gulp in air like a fish, but I cannot find my breath. I have had this moment in my mind for weeks and now I'm acting like a 15 year old on her first date.

He's bending down about to kiss me and stops and says, "I know roses weren't your favorite flowers but I couldn't find anything blue". My dumb butt had all ready closed my eyes and had my mouth opened. I open my eyes and I'm like what? Cause when you can't breath I guess you can't hear either.

So I just lost it...I don't know I guess it was the suit and cologne and that package I'd stumbled on (almost literally, okay I'm exaggerating) earlier got the best of me. I get on my tip toes and just start kissing him like the preacher just said you may kiss the bride.

When I open my eyes, his eyes are still closed. Then he looks at me and smiles and tells me he's so happy I didn't chicken out and not come. COUNTRY. He looks behind him from the direction his sister left. Then he squeezes me so hard I wince and picks me up off the floor. He walks me into the kitchen and this time he kisses me. Now I really cannot breath. I knew from that kiss this was going to be a fun weekend.

We finally unwrap ourselves and leave for dinner. His SUV is at his mom's house so we take his sisters car. We go downtown which is so so quaint and he's telling me all about the towns history. There are a lot of cozy little shops and restaurants. We decided on barbeque of all things on a first date. But oh well. When the food comes he puts both his hands out for mine, bows his head and says grace. I smiled when he asked God to bless our friendship. He's a good guy. I like this guy.

So we finish dinner, if you can imagine us both eating with one hand because we kept holding hands. Then we walk down by the waterway. He ask me what I want to do later and I told him let's just go back home. I didn't really mean anything by it, but he seemed to really like me saying the "home" part.

We get back and start picking through his large collection of movies. We select about three. But don't watch any. To be continued.
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OMG this is soooo sweet. I am very glad that things worked out well!
 
patient1 said:
I think she's making some hard decisions about what more to share. After all, they chose 3 movies and didn't watch a one :look: . The sister's got to edit.

This really is sweet. My cousin met her hubby online. They have a wonderful life and are expecting their first child. Here's to living boldly Eliza.

You can pm me with the WHOLE story, I won't judge ya. :grin:

p1
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Bwahahahahahahahah LOL

Eliza, we all are rooting for you! :yep: :clap:
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
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I was on Blackpeoplemeet.com for a few months. I have to say it did have some decent guys on there. Maybe that's because it's a paid sight. You got me tearing at work reading this story. I can't be doing that, I'm the only woman up in here. But your story is so sweet.
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
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*Mzlady78 seriously considers reactivating her BPM account......*

Real talk, I was a little skeptical at first, but after reading this I am so happy and so excited for you!

And girl, you sure know how to tell a story. I was over here on the edge of my seat!
 
ElizaBlue said:
He even said he didn't care if I posted a picture of us. I don't know about that one. But I probably will. Now look ya'll out there in South Cak-a-laky don't be talking bout "girl I went to high school with him". Cause the Blue got this. Ain't no Hillary Clinton gaps in my game. Hehehe. Okay stop.
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Well all right na! :lachen:

To the rest of the post- I'm soooooo moving to SC, lol. :lachen:
 
This story is so SWEET! I love it! I am so glad that you had a wonderful time and that this man is treating you so well!

Now please finish telling us the rest of the story....!:grin:
 
ElizaBlue said:
Ladies, thank you for all the well wishes. I apologize for not being able to respond to each response, but for those who asked what site we met on, it was www.blackpeoplemeet.com.

And so yeah he took down his profile before I took down mine. I went in one day to look at his pics again and it was gone. When I asked him about it his comment was, "oh I got what I was looking for so I cancelled it." So then I did the same.

I will come back Saturday's events. Gotta get some housework done first. Ya'll are truly inspiring me to try my hand at writing. To me it's just my crazy life. But I really really do love you all for all the encouraging words.

Be back soon.
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Aww that's so sweet! This thread is like the Bey & Jay thread on their wedding day, lol!

*wipes tears from eyes*

Standing ovation for black love!
 
Arcadian said:
Girl I'm sitting here just a cheezin:lachen: I'm so happy for you. LDR's are like hell on earth (We had one for 3 years) when you want to be with someone. Glad you decided to follow your instincts on this guy.


-A
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Me too! I can't wipe this grin off my face even if I wanted to. I met my SO online and your first meeting sounds so sweet. It brings back so many memories.

Currently still LD at the moment too so I know how that is.

This is such a wonderful story! Also I'm so happily surprised to see how many of us have had successful online relationships. ^_^
 
MzLady78 said:
*Mzlady78 seriously considers reactivating her BPM account......*

Real talk, I was a little skeptical at first, but after reading this I am so happy and so excited for you!

And girl, you sure know how to tell a story. I was over here on the edge of my seat!
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And as evidenced by Eliza, you gotta open up your geographical options too!

Im mad that we have to wait to get the rest of the story though...Eliza is a threadTEASE!!
 
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